I was one of the guys who had to learn it the hard way. I spent my teenage years together with a German woman. To say that our relationship was quite toxic would be the understatement of the century. Her emotional ups and downs drove me nuts and her constant complaints made me doubt that living in a harmonic relationship with a woman was even possible.
I was faced with the same dilemma that thousands of other men have faced, I didn’t question the status quo and quietly assumed that this is simply the way things are. I had absolutely no idea that there were continents full of loving, caring and supportive women who don’t create drama at every possible opportunity.
A short trip to Poland was responsible for the first cracks in the rose-colored glasses that I wore courtesy of my Western upbringing. A subsequent three month trip to Thailand was sufficient to smash those rose-colored glasses into a thousand tiny pieces.
I finally saw the other part of the world and its women for what they really are. I didn’t see it with the eyes of a biased man who has been conditioned by western society to believe that all Eastern European and Asian women are prostitutes who only want money. I saw it as a man with an open heart and an unbiased mind; as a man who was ready for the truth.
The truth that I discovered is not something that the Western media and society wants you to know…
The Grass Really is Greener On the Other Side
It is true. The grass really is greener on the other side. While the metaphorical dating grass is dry and withered in the West, it is juicy and green on the other side of the world. It must be because of the cultural fertilizer that either helps women to shine in their own femininity, or that transforms them into men.
Before I spent several months in the land of smiles I thought that it was normal for women to behave like men, to make fun of their boyfriends in public and to not care about family values as long as the salary at their corporate job is sufficient to buy a new blazer every month.
In Thailand I met girls who told me that the family is the most important thing for them, that they consider it normal to take care of their boyfriend and to make him happy. Words can’t describe the positive emotions that I felt when I first heard this. Words also can’t describe the shocked faces that I gazed upon, when I told them about the “family values” of some Western women. I cant’t say that all Western women are bad, but in general the grass on the other side really is greener.
A Direct Comparison Shows the Obvious Differences
By just looking at and talking to beautiful Thai girls I already realized the difference. The feminine behavior, the feminine look and the incredible warmth that I wasn’t used to were all indicators that things were different in other parts of the world.
However, the day I fully understood the magnitude of these differences was when I went out with a group of Western people and Thai people. There were two Thai girls and two American girls in this group and the difference between them couldn’t have been more obvious.
While I had a really pleasant conversation with the two gorgeous and incredibly friendly Thai girls, it was really exhausting to talk to the two American girls for more than ten minutes. I wouldn’t even call it a conversation. It was an argument during which they become loud and disrespectful whenever I refused to agree with them. Not to mention that the American girls were fat while their Thai counterparts were slender and beautiful; probably because the American’s guzzled coke at a rate that others only drink water. The direct comparison between traditional Asian girls and Western girls, who probably get laid left and right back home, was really scary. For the first time I realized that I didn’t really want to go back to where I came from.
Western Women are Well Aware of their Inferiority
One really interesting fact that you will observe when you are in a country like Thailand is that Western women are aware that men prefer friendly, supportive and feminine women when given the choice.
You have only to look in the faces of Western couples who decided to spend their vacation in a city like Bangkok. He is busy gazing at all the slim and gorgeous Thai girls while he holds the hand of his obese western dragon. With eyes like daggers she signals to every beautiful girl who dares to make the slightest glance in her boyfriends direction that she will rip her eyes out should she venture any closer.
Even though I have met only one terribly obese American woman who was naïve enough to ask me why it is so hard for her to date in Bangkok, 99% of Western women know that they are inferior to most non-western women.
Shaming is a Just an Attempt to Persuade You
If Western women didn’t understand that the majority of men would choose an agreeable, feminine foreign woman over a grumpy, obese, masculine Western woman, they wouldn’t shame foreign girls at every opportunity; it’s really that simple.
Why do you think Western women tend to argue that all foreign women are prostitutes, gold diggers and mail order brides? They wouldn’t even see the need to speak ill of foreign women if they weren’t afraid that their beloved boyfriends and husbands might wake up one day and realize that they made a terrible mistake. Their own insecurities force them to defend themselves by belittling others. We all know that the best defense is a strong offense.
Do you know what I do every time a frustrated Western woman talks badly about foreign women?
I look into the eyes of my beautiful Thai girlfriend and give her a kiss.