American Girls Suck!

American girls suck!

The more I have traveled the world and seen what it has to offer to more I have realized that the average American woman is shockingly low in quality.  Why?  Let me count the ways.

The average American woman is the worst woman in the world. She’s fat. Really fat.  Or she’s too skinny because of her eating disorders.  She has terrible fashion sense and walks around in public like a slob with sweatpants and no makeup.  I mean come on girls, is the airport really the right place for your stupid slumber party?  I had an American girl come over for dinner for our second date last year wearing sweats – and not even well fitting sweats, but a XXL sweatshirt, baggy jeans and no makeup whatsoever.

She said to me that night, “I don’t care what I look like.”

I said, “I care what you look like.”

And that was pretty much the end of that.  Dessert was canceled.

American women also have the most unattractive feeling of self-entitlement.  The difference between how hot a girl thinks she is and how quality she actually is is huge in America.  What American guy hasn’t had the experience of being in a bar and approaching a marginally attractive girl and tried to say hi to her only to have her be extremely rude for no good reason?  Who doesn’t know some poor schmuck who was forced into marriage by some “princess” who refused sex until she got a ring? Or some nice decent looking guy who gets totally led around by the balls by some ugly mastodon?   A personal side story, my best friend was dating a girl for less than six months when she pressured him into getting married that summer. Why?  Because her parents and sister got married on the same date in years previous and it just so happened that that date was on a Saturday that year.  Needless to say she turned out to be completely crazy and they divorced a couple years later but only after she took 100K of his money even though they had no kids and she didn’t work when they were married.

And they are morons!  Girls in America are often so staggeringly stupid it just makes me want to shoot myself listening to them talk. Ever listened to couple of 18 year old American girls talk to each other?  They are just retarded.   Hot chicks in America have been conditioned to think that nothing is required of them other than being hot, rampant stupidity is the result.

Here’s a classic example of a stupid hot American girl:

The part of this I find the most disgraceful is not the pathetic attempt to sound non-retarded by that Litttle Miss Einstein but the question itself: 20% of Americans can’t find America on map!  What the fuck?  And this is not a joke.  One thing you find when you travel is that Americans are some of the stupidest people you will ever meet.

Here’s another of my personal favorites:

American girls make terrible girlfriends and wives.  Just watch sitcoms and you’ll get the idea of how our society is training our women to treat us. Your typical sitcom is about some poor henpecked bumbling husband who is always getting bitched at by their wife for going out with their buddies.  It’s a good situation for the women.  American guys in general treat women very well because we our spirits have been so thoroughly so crushed by our horrible women.  And the shit that we let them say to us in incredible.

“You don’t respect me.”

“You embarrass me in public.”

“Why can’t you get along with my mother?”

“How come you’d rather hang out with your friends than stay at home with me and watch The Hills?”

“I have a headache.”

“Why do you like stupid football?”

“No you can’t spend the money you earned on a new HDTV, I’m going to spend your money on some clothes that I’m too fat to wear 85% of the time.”
“Fuck you, bitch!”

It’s really us that deserve the blame.  Too many American, English and Western European girls have been coddled and their horrible self entitled behavior accommodated over the generations. They were given way more than they deserved.  It doesn’t really matter if an American girl is kind of ugly, fat, stupid and mean, some poor slob will take her out, be nice to her and buy her a bunch of shit in the faint hope that she will have sex with him. My heart always breaks when I’m out at Walmart buying some cheap Chinese shit and and I see some overweight pizza face Jabba the Slut leading around some poor dude like a lost puppy dog while she puts a bunch of Twinkies in the cart. Or when I see some poor bastard shelling out for an overpriced restaurant only to watch some mediocre girl spend the whole time staring at her Crackberry.  Or when some loser marries a heifer who held sex over his head until she got some stupid worthless (but expensive) diamond ring. So guys, by putting up with this bullshit we have earned what we have.

Single Dude Travel is adamant on this issue: It doesn’t have to be this way.  Don’t settle for mediocre American girls.

Now before you get all pissed off at that absurd generalization, I will say that of course, America is a huge country with over 300 million people in it and there are plenty of good American girls out there.  Some of our favorite girlfriends have been American, but they were the rare exception to the rule and not the norm. Your odds in America of finding a quality woman are very bad these days and only getting worse.

This is one of the reasons that we travel.  There is another whole world out there of gorgeous, thin, super nice, brilliant, successful, motivated girls who would love to be with you, and we want to help you find them and live happily ever after.  Or just for tonight, it’s your call.  But you have to leave America.  You have to travel.

When you travel, you’ll see how big the difference really is.  Don’t accept the American bill of sale for relationships.  The world can be a paradise if you do it right. We’ve been doing this for several years and have learned lots of great tricks of the trade that we will pass on to you.  We’ll cover lots of other places in the world and tell you where to go, where to stay, and even maybe how to find the love of your life.  We’ll also give you some tips on how to be the best person you can be, because let’s face it, there’s a lot more to life than just women.

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Graphical Representation of Miss South Carolina's Thought Process

Charlie Bushmeister

Call me Charlie. I decided to join with others to write this blog because I feel that I have learned a lot about how to succeed in life in general. It took a lot of trial and error and I've developed a wealth of philosophies, skills, and tricks of the trade that would be very useful to like minded guys out there. There's no need to repeat my mistakes, of which I have made many, instead I urge you to read this blog, absorb and practice its lessons, and then go out and have the most awesome life, on your own terms. To me that means good health, success in your career, the number and type of relationships you want, and general satisfaction that you're not wasting your life spinning your wheels, but going forward always towards your goals.

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  • Sir Lumpy

    Wisconsin women: flabby, bad hair, bad skin, tattoos, they all smoke. And worst of all is that STUPID accent!!!!!!

  • Patrick Woods

    Maybe you should read the article again- where it says:

    “I will say that of course, America is a huge country with over 300 million people in it and there are plenty of good American girls out there.”

    So I just proved you wrong. Quit saying that the article claims that all Americans are bad, because it clearly doesn’t. What is abundantly clear, is that you don’t take the time to read things.

  • Patrick Woods

    Well……hello again. What a nice surprise. Nice to see you running your potty mouth again. What a rare talent that is.

  • Patrick Woods

    Wow…… in fact confirmed that you are uneducated. And yes, Steven Hawking is BRITISH. All you have to do is look it up… but of course, a person of your caliber is too stupid to do that. Just keep wasting your life with your childish rants.

  • Manuel

    Hey shit head, don’t you know threats like that are illegal in police state USA? Probably falls under “terrorist threats” by now. You don’t want a treatment of water boarding and electrodes on your balls do you?

  • Manuel

    I’m so glad you’re here to refute the premise of the article. You’re doing an excellent job.

    • David

      Shut the fuck up, you whiny little bitch. Hop back across the fuckin’ border, “MANUEL”, assuming you’re some fuckin’ Mexican. Get the fuck out of my country. Or give me your address so that I can paint the walls of my house with your blood. :)

      • Manuel

        You sure an entertaining little retard aren’t you?

        • David

          Enough with this idiotic banter. Give me your address so that I can put you in the ground once and for all. And for the record, you stupid fuck, “MENTAL RETARDATION” does not mean “stupid”. If you have a problem with me, fine, but don’t fucking insult every single mentally disabled person on Earth just because you’re too fucking stupid and ignorant to know the difference between “stupid” and “MENTALLY DISABLED”!!!!!! Being insulted is one thing. Being inaccurate is another. At least if you’re going to insult me, use some god damm intelligence, you fucking stupid Mexican!

          • Manuel

            Well you certainly seem to fit the dictionary definition of the term, both one and two in fact:

            [ri-tahr-did] Usually Offensive.
            1. characterized by a slowness or limitation in intellectual understanding and awareness, emotional development, academic progress, etc.
            2. Slang. stupid or foolish.
            3. (used with a plural verb) people who are slow or limited in mental development (usually preceded by the): new schools for the retarded.

            Seriously, only someone with at least mild retardation would seek to chase down a random stranger from the internet. I mean how do you know I don’t have a loaded double barreled shotgun waiting to blow your brains all over my driveway. Or maybe I’ll just take a baseball bat or hammer to your skull. Not very bright… not very bright.

            OK anyway, here is my address: 3080 Valleyview Dr., Columbus, OH 43204

          • David

            Trust me, it doesn’t fucking matter what you have. You’re not invincible like you would like to think. You’re a typical, loud mouthed, annoying, bickering, childish, insecure, pussy whipped little fucking brat that never suffered any humility. You don’t seem to realize who you’re fucking with. If I really set out to do it, I would AND COULD knock you unconscious, drive you out to the middle of nowhere where no one can see or hear you, tie you to a chair, beat the fucking shit out of you every day for a month while subjecting you to various kinds of torture, while murdering your family in front of you, then I would proceed to give you 100 paper cuts all over your exposed naked body then dump a bucket of alcohol on you, remove all of your teeth, fingernails and toenails with a wrench, smash your knees with a mallet, pull out your eyeballs, tear off your lower jaw, rip your flesh off, chop you into pieces, and toss your body parts into a furnace to hide the evidence. You can talk all the shit you want, but you absolutely can not stop me from coming after you IF I WANTED TO. This is not a threat.

          • David

            Trust me, it doesn’t fucking matter what you have. You’re not invincible like you would like to think. You’re a typical, loud mouthed, annoying, bickering, childish, insecure, pussy whipped little fucking brat that never suffered any humility. You don’t seem to realize who you’re fucking with. If I really set out to do it, I would AND COULD knock you unconscious, drive you out to the middle of nowhere where no one can see or hear you, tie you to a chair, beat the fucking shit out of you every day for a month while subjecting you to various kinds of torture, while murdering your family in front of you, then I would proceed to give you 100 paper cuts all over your exposed naked body then dump a bucket of alcohol on you, remove all of your teeth, fingernails and toenails with a wrench, smash your knees with a mallet, pull out your eyeballs, tear off your lower jaw, rip your flesh off, chop you into pieces, and toss your body parts into a furnace to hide the evidence. You can talk all the shit you want, but you absolutely can not stop me from coming after you IF I WANTED TO. This is not a threat.

          • David

            Do you think is a fuckin’ joke? I want YOUR address! Unlike you, I would love to end this pathetic display of back and forth bickering with a face to face battle, but if you would rather be a scared little pussy and hide behind your ‘puter, go ahead. Trust me, it doesn’t fucking matter what you have. You’re not invincible like you would like to think. You’re a typical, loud mouthed, annoying, bickering, childish, insecure, pussy whipped little fucking brat that never suffered any humility. You don’t seem to realize who you’re fucking with. If I really set out to do it, I would AND COULD knock you unconscious, drive you out to the middle of nowhere where no one can see or hear you, tie you to a chair, beat the fucking shit out of you every day for a month while subjecting you to various kinds of torture, while murdering your family in front of you, then I would proceed to give you 100 paper cuts all over your exposed naked body then dump a bucket of alcohol on you, remove all of your teeth, fingernails and toenails with a wrench, smash your knees with a mallet, pull out your eyeballs, tear off your lower jaw, rip your flesh off, chop you into pieces, and toss your body parts into a furnace to hide the evidence. You can talk all the shit you want, but you absolutely can not stop me from coming after you IF I WANTED TO. This is not a threat.

          • Manuel

            Yes you’re a joke. I’ll let you in on a little secret. First, you are too stupid to figure out where I live, even though I already figured out where you live, what you do for a living, your age, etc. Second, being that you are so stupid, you would never be able to obtain enough money to travel to where I live. Third, I’m certainly not going to fly to the states to kick your dumbass. So can we drop this charade so I can go back to laughing at how stupid you are?

          • Manuel

            This is not a threat.

            Woops, too late dumbass. You sure are a sad, angry little man aren’t you?

  • ProudlyUnaffiliated

    Feeling angry much today?

    • David

      Every god damn day of my mother fuckin’ LIFE!!!!!! 😉

      • Patrick Woods

        You are an uneducated prick. Nice going – AMERICAN.

  • Manuel

    And with your comment, David Columbus, we rest our case.

  • Manuel

    Hey dumbass, Stephen Hawking is British!

    • David

      SHUT THE FUCK UP, ASSHOLE!!! No he is not! You make me so angry, I want to slit your fucking throat!! Why did your slut mother have to give birth to you? Fucking stupid waste of space

      • Manuel

        Are you actually this stupid or are you just making a joke here?

  • Gary Price

    Glad my Mrs. is from Asia….

  • Gary Price
  • Sorry Guys

    I apologize on behalf of the few American women out there who don’t care how much money you have, and who don’t frequently curse at men and who actually put themselves together when they leave the house. I’m embarrassed that the world sees us this way…We’re not all bad. Granted that’s only about 5% of us, if that much…still, I’m sorry about them, truly. Eh, but I also have no fellow female friends. They all think I’m odd, lol.

  • privateSectorTaxSlave

    Great article!
    Women in the west don’t try. WHY? most of them can be repulsive, self-centered, lazy microwave bimbo zombies and still realise the “American Dream”.

    The proliferation of Beyonce songs is a further agent of enabling this ghastly generation of honey boo boo Kardashian panty wetters. Single Ladies song lyrics “Cause if you liked it, then you should have put a ring on it” … hey Beyonce put a cock ring on it.

  • Toronto chick

    Ok… a female from Canada and im in stitches right now reading this, incredibly well written (although i must say its been a long time since I burst out laughing from something so funny. And I am kind of conservative, gee I would be scared to be evaluated by you! Lol. I could only hope you wouldnt be so harsh, (cringe) lol.
    Im married, and 45, not fat, wear make up, nice clothes, long dark hair, Canadian, with Italian immigrant parents…and im sure you can could up with a few things to say! I find it very humourous and fun, (although still insulting to women) I can laugh my head off still while giving me a great male perspective.
    Anything on Italian women?
    How about Canadian women?
    Looking forward to reading more.
    Sent your link to my BFF, a male friend who will find this funny as well.
    My 2 cents is that women where im from (Toronto, Canada) are unfriendly, spiteful, frenemy, competitive bitches amongst themselves.
    Where is the best country for a female friend if you are female?

    • Manuel

      You seem just fine. I mean you pretty much have to be if you’re not cursing us and wishing death upon us like the average American chick would just for pointing out the obvious. Can’t speak for everyone else but I always found
      southern Italian chicks quite nice. We don’t have much experience with
      Canada having long abandon North America (except for Mexico).

  • T. Storla

    I married a lady from Thailand and I am not worried at all about her becoming tainted with western style feminism since one thing we both have in common is a desire to live our lives in Thailand. We work together as partners and have been for more than a decade now. Her family accepts me fully as a member of the family and it is not because of money since we do not sent them any. They have a home and lives of their own.

  • Dan Dan

    Women in the United States of America have no clue that there is a difference between being “empowered” and that of just being a down right “bitch”. A lot of what they think, say, and do is based on stereotyping, hate, brainwashing, selfishness, greed, and the big D word “Delusional”. Of course an American woman reading this will retaliate by throwing the cliche’ comebacks such as “are you afraid of an empowered strong woman?” or “You’re just mad because your penis is small.” Ha Ha Ha Well I am not afraid of an empowered strong woman BUT I am afraid and even terrified of your average US Selfish Arrogant Delusional psychopath. Most US woman are what you call “Professional Victims” in which they are not victims at all but constantly pretend to be. In their minds they live in a Lifetime Movie of the week. And usually your cliche’ American boy goes along with it hoping to get into her pants when she lies to get him to beat some poor innocent X up, because he dumped her when she drained his wallet. Woman in the USA are not half as smart as they think they are. In fact these angry, bitter, stuck on themselves creatures are monsters. Selfish, arrogant, game playing gold digging soulless monsters. And usually the men they end up with are also shallow brainless lumps.

  • Sugarsail

    American culture and the rising global culture have been poisoned by two major movements. One, is feminism, which has led to guilt-ridden emasculated males and henpecking entitled egocentric materialistic women. The other is puritan Christianity, which has led to subconscious guilt and prudery regarding sex, and an over valuation of marriage driven by romanticism, financial security, and stigmas of being an old maid combined with the stigma of illegitimate children. The combination of the two is toxic to healthy relationships.

  • Mike

    It’s just as bad in the UK believe me. 50% of the women here of dating age are quite overweight and do nothing about it at all. “I’m curvy”, “voluptuous” blah blah blah. The ones who are physically attractive are so up themselves it’s untrue. Then the girls that actually you might think are attractive seem to want to chase after the obnoxious, loutish pricks and the ones that aren’t doing this are waiting for “the one”. It’s actually quite shocking what I have seen my friends settle for in order to not be alone.
    I had two attempts at dating English girls recently (after swearing off them for several years) – one girl my “friends” convinced me to try was quite overweight and had appallng stained crooked teeth. Jesus – try and do something about at least one of these things! That’s all I ask! I’ve spent a goodly amount of time and money on sorting out my own teeth and I weight train and run regularly so why would I think someone who doesn’t do either would be a good match?!?
    Then the other I met on my own. I thought I’d hit the jackpot – slim, quite pretty but not intimidatingly so and intelligent. Unfortunately because I didn’t treat her like shit or something she decided it “wasn’t going anywhere”. Well, let’s see if she’s so picky when she moves into her late thirties and gravity along with a dip in hormones starts to take serious hold. Yes, I saw not a few grey hairs but was too polite to mention it.
    I overheard some married friends trying to set a friend of mine up. He’s a nice fellow, intelligent and quite good looking but a bit shy. “I’ve got a recently divorced female friend you might like … she’s in her early thirties and she’s looking for a good, reliable man” Ooohh I see how this works. She spent her twenties when she was at her head turning hottest fucking some rich, obnoxious arsehole and lying on a beach in the Maldives in a string bikini. Now she’s found out he was screwing some eighteen year old work experience slut she’s got a divorce, an expanding arse and sagging tits and would like to get Mr Average doormat to treat her like a princess.
    If you want my advice try and date an Eastern European – they are generally better looking, slimmer and are better educated. But get in there fast my friends because they are starting to realise in a country full of fat pigs they are a long way ahead of the local fauna.

  • Anna

    Americans in general are pretty basic, both men and women. Even educated, most lack culture, aren’t well traveled and stick to steak and potatoes/ burgers/hot dogs, listen to “pop” music, etc
    I myself married an American and when I told my hubby that I expect our children to be at least tri-lingual, start traveling at a young age, excel at a sport (other than US football or baseball), learn a musical instrument, eat healthy, start helping out in the house young and be pushed to excellence, he was horrified and his answer was “kids should just have fun” or “it’s wrong to force kids to do things they don’t want to”.
    In other words, American men are just as simple as their female compatriots and are bound to raise the same type of offspring (unless they marry a foreign wife that will be redirecting the upbringing on the right path).
    The problem isn’t with American women, but with the entire country’s culture (or lack off) and American men help raise their little girls into what you just described.

    • Proudly Unaffiliated

      I don’t care what nationality you are, how good think you look or how great you want your kids to be. Your poor husband is an excellent example of how so many men screw up– they end up with a demanding woman to run their lives into the ground and this becomes most clear AFTER the kids are here. I had one try (so happened to be foreign, like you perhaps) and it was a disaster, mainly for the kids. But I thank the good Lord every day I am no longer with that basket case of a woman.

      • JJ

        you seem confused.
        she wanted her children to be educated, cosmopolitan, well-traveled and well balanced
        he, the simplistic american yokel, thinks kids should “just have fun”, thus growing up into the kind of sterotypical american simpleton that the rest of the western world mocks
        he was the idiot in her example, not her

    • Michael

      Anna if my GF said what you just said I would ask her to marry me “now”. On average most American men feel the same way you do, You must have found a rare one that doesn’t. The USA for the most part has high quality men that’s why our women are so picky because finding a decent man Is easy. Men have to work hard at dating even average looking women.
      I call it the Bird Of Paradise Syndrome: The large beautifully color male does this elaborate dance while competing with other male birds to get sex from a small drab brown female bird… this sums up the US dating scene nicely…

  • goo-goo-gaa-gaa

    Yes! Very true! Eat American pussay.

  • Arnie Jonassen

    I am American and I can tell you that a lot of what he says is completely true.

  • fuckthisguy

    you can tell the guy who wrote this is a real piece of shit. you think american girls have this sense of self entitlement but here you are complaining about how none of them meet your standards. I see so many men who have let themselves go and put no effort into anything it’s about equal. I’d much rather meet a sexy romantic European man. Here you are calling women all kinds of immature names and making gross generalizations.

    • Jason Row

      All I read was “MOOOOO”

      • Mingoder

        I read mooooooooooooooo mooooo moooooooooooooooooooo 😛

  • We will take ur american girls if u dont want them

    Lol this slash piece. I live in Vancouver, Canada and every long weekend you will see party buses come up from the University of Washington and other WA schools to drink and party in Vancouver because you only have to be 19 here not 21 to drink.

    I meet and bang these girls all the time and they are awesome! None of them are fat, all of them are cheerleader looking and while yeah some of them are completely retarded when it comes to knowledge of things that aren’t American centric that’s not what I’m thinking about when I’m screwing a Univ of WA cheerleader in a hotel on Granville St after partying all night in a club.

    The black girls from the US are also in high demand here, since there are no black girls. A sexy looking black girl will receive nothing but guys falling all over her in a nightclub up here.

    • don

      Good for you and Rob Ford, fella.

    • http://QQ John P Stormont

      well – basically this article is pretty spot on. I would certainly expect any American girl who read it to be pissed and claim that 1) it isn’t true 2) you fuck foreign girls because that’s all you can get 3) etc., etc. blah blah but actually, how many of you men have even travelled to Asia or South America ? I can tell you that the women there are very nice, neat and clean and very pretty and very receptive to American men. And very rewarding to men who treat them well. They still love to flaunt it, tight jeans and heels etc. As for banging all the American College chicks = it’s quite a different situation when they come to your country to party. They’ll fuck any foreigner before they’ll fuck an American. Just like the faithful housewife who will positively take it anywhere and do anything for the Pool Boy but wouldn’t suck her husband’s dick to save the world. Get out there and travel a bit. Drop a couple hundred in a Hong Kong bar. If you’re halfway smart, you’ll be grinning for a week.

  • Thai

    Yeah bud,, Love is an ILLUSION…. How many times have you looked into the beautiful eyes of one of these airhead American bitches THINKING that you know what she is thinking, which just turns out to be totally wrong!!! All they care about is running to the bad, acting like a GUY, (drinking, smoking, swearing, f*ckng just anyone they meet that they consider bad or cool,) They all think they are ” Baaad ASssesss” (in a stupid valley girl voice) Also, do you ever notice when girls who dont know each other that well usually will start cat fights or arguin? It is usually about whos is the Baddest, or Coolest or whatever, trying to outdue each other on being the most BADASS< and that causes fighting.. Its never over "who went to church the most times last week" , Or "who visits and helps their elderly relatives more.." Lol They are ALLL GARBAGEEE!! We need to all WAKE UP ! We treat them like princesses to get some sex, THEN we DONT get it because we are nice, AND we are building them up for all the wrong reasons!! Next thing, they are walking the streets with a Self confidence of being wanted by all the guys, like some princess!! Stop giving them the time of day!! lol

    • don

      When I read crap like this, I’m glad I have acne scars and women find me revolting.

    • Michael

      Thai I agree with my man, but nothing is going to chance in the USA, why? because the Male / Female ratios here favor women. Now don’t believe the bull you read about USA having 51% women 49% men this applies to everyone 18-64.
      How many people on this forum date women 45 +. Here is the true M / F ratios in the USA, read them and weep:

  • Pattaya,Thailand

    Stereotype… LOL!!

  • sim

    American women usually likes bad boys thinking that they have bigger penises and that it is much more fun. When they realize the truth, it is too late, they are single fat ugly mothers and the ex is a looser who works low paying job so she is not even getting child support. It is pretty funny.

    • don

      You ought to learn sentence structure, grammar, and spelling.

  • kent harris

    I went out with this girl last night and I had a good time. She on the other hand felt we were at separate phases in our life and she didn’t want to see me again. One date and that is it. Women in America are too spoiled and fickle.

  • Telling The Truth

    american women are so full of themselves today since they are the absolute worse women to meet, and many of them have such an attitude problem and play very hard to get. certainly not worth the time of day.

  • Proudly Unaffiliated

    Great article! To further help the Dudes out, here is the beginnings of a “crazy” list. All these traits were observed while dating American women.

    Feel free to add to the list, this is only a start.

    Indications of Crazy

    1. Owns more than 2 cats.
    2. Does not have a job and has not had a job for a long time.
    3. Leaves long voice mails.
    4. Writes long emails.
    5. Drinks too much or smokes dope too much.
    6. Says or implies she is into wiccan/witchcraft, possibly even claiming to be a “good” witch.
    7. Always having little accidents and disasters, most of which seems self-created.
    8. Has crazy or mean family members, esp. one or both parents.
    9. Complains a lot about normal things in life (neighbors, store clerks, waitresses, etc.).
    10. Seems to often need/ask for help doing things she could have done herself.
    11. Is superficially pleasant and apparently happy but is actually has darkness and discontent inside.

  • Anti Feminist

    I love reading these comment and stories about men who travel out of the West to find better women than the American women. From my 15 years of experience dating in the West, I’d say the majority of the Western women are the worst kinds of women to date, have a relationship with, and even to marry! No decent guy wants a spoiled, self-centered, self-entitled, ignorant, lying, unapproachable, narcissistic bitch, which is the majority of women you’re going to find in the West. Gentlemen, it’s time you grab your balls, stop fucking around with these feminized cunt bags in the West, get yourself a passport and get the fark out of the West and start going to foreign countries to date better, nicer, beautiful and higher quality foreign women! Let these Western delusional women be single for the rest of their miserable lives with their 10 cats! I rest my case! =D

  • SeriouslySpeaking

    where in the world are the REAL LADIES like we had years ago?

    • Deb Spiv

      I hear you! I am a white woman. I am a masters student from Maryland in California attending a large state university. Every day I see the dumbest s#$% imaginable (online and on campus). I am very fortunate to have a strong boyfriend (from the Midwest) who respects and checks me. Although I don’t agree entirely with this post, I do agree that a large portion (70%+) of American women (and men!) under 30-35 are completely worthless. You either meet an egotistical prick or a hapless drug user. With that said, I breach ground. I believe our governmental path has led us to this state. It’s not really any one individual’s fault but It is time to make crucial changes. First, a useful herb needs to be legalized nationwide. Our paper, drug and fuel economies could be revolutionized creating nationwide stimulus creating uber jobs plus thousands of martyred prisoners could be released. Hearst is dead, the newspaper industry is already a Dodo bird, forestry should only be used for fire prevention uses at this point. How many celebrities have been caught, sent through some BS rehab and released? Money talks in the US of A. How does that create common aspirations? Number two, “Illegal aliens” should be accepted as citizens, and taxed! Problem solved capitol hill numb nuts. Finally, what the F? are we to do about our judicial system? TM’s killer walks while a mother who harmed none rots in prison? Police officers spend 90% of their time on paperwork, bureaucracy & in divorce court because their wives cheated on them. This country is swiftly falling apart. No old time Christianity or Judaism will work, Comic-con and Scientology are laughable, certainly not our future, we are all just bugs man. We are tiny specks on a tiny dot in a tiny part of the universe, just be happy to be here and have fun! :)

      • Buckofama

        Your brainwashed views are part of what is wrong with American women

      • Michael

        Deb Your BF needs to “check” you more often… After experiencing the soul crashing US dating scene I don’t blame men for using drugs, they need them to feel good because there women aren’t. Roughly 20% of the men here might be this looser type you describe. but at least half the women in this country have some serious entitlement issues, resulting for too many quality men to choose from and that’s being very generous…
        Most Foreign women I talk to are amazed at the quality of USA men and feel USA women are very lucky to have so many well earning, nice and decent men in one country….
        Oh yeah Deb, How is making millions of Low IQ Mexicans whom take more in social services then they pay in taxes legal going to help this country ???

  • Porcupine Glenn

    Look at how American men are responding to this mess: “Pick up artistry“, classes, online forums, groups, curriculum on *how to deal with American women*. It is absolute insanity. We have to completely change ourselves and our “approach” to women to have even a fair shake at getting their attention. We have to become “assholes“, who are “cocky/funny”. Much of this interaction is painfully shallow and transparent (but appears to work, in some cases).

    As if the mental illness rates aren’t high enough in this country, I expect this level of psychosis and dysfunction to send them up even higher, as men try this method of madness, fail or even reach some success, but ultimately crack under the pressure.

    I just went on a date… The 20 year-old talked about herself 95% of the time, sucking the air out of the room; I wondered if she would pass out from not taking a breath. The girl not only didn’t offer to pay, she did not even offer a “thank you” for the dinner and movie. She also didn’t say a word to me the next day, until I got upset and sent her a message online. Needless to say, that’s over, but it’s far too often the “norm”. You just expect it. You expect a lousy date, no connection, the girl to basically just “use” you and seem only mildly interested in being there (and this girl would be considered a 7 at best). I’m 32, 5’11”, White, fit and normal looking. I’m average or above-average in looks, but is that even enough anymore?

    Many decent men out there want the passion, connection that makes women wonderful. You won’t find that in the U.S. It is devastating, and I think it’s depressing a lot of men out there. Romance is certainly completely dead here.

    • Flymagnet

      Hey Glenn, good comment – most young guys in the west are experiencing the same (I’m a 60 yo aussie bloke so I’ve watched it all happen). In a recent study at a popular dating website service the women seeking men rated over 75% of the men as “below or way below average” attractiveness. The men (I recall) rated around 50% of the women as above/below. You are exactly right about the modern girl having unrealistic expectations and being self obsessed. Even being with a woman these days is a health and wealth hazard due to the rad-feminist penetration of key institutions in society.

      The driving behavioural forces behind this behaviour is feminist ideology and female hypergamy <– for a great intro to this concept go to youtube and see video's by Sandman or Baa Baa or ManWomanMyth. In terms of foreign women, been there done that… last one was a Thai girl which lasted about 3 years. My view? There's gem's everywhere, even on home turf but the rest are princesses which turn into monsters in the end. Don't be fooled by the culture gap, it all equalizes in the end. Why not go your own way, develop your own self, health, wealth with the occasional raid into femme land for fun (with protections) and if you run into that special one then great! You hit the jackpot. I know it's hard to picture life without a woman chewing your ear out but tbh the risks have become way, way too great.
      Good Luck mate!

  • Rebecca

    It’s a damn shame that these bad apples ruin it for the rest of us. Though this article isn’t 100% true, it does give a good idea of how others may view us. Like a previous comment stated, I hope this article serves as a wake-up call for the “ladies” that it describes.

    • Marcos Tarquinio Simao

      im living in california for two years , i came from south america (brazil) to work in a tech company so i consider myself an inteliigent person with a high educational level, i cant find a girl here , most of girls are racist , materialists and have a bad mood , poor education and very superficial. its hard to make friends too. A great disappointment , i came from a culture that the girls are nice to you , are very good looking and they fall in love even if you’re not rich. i tried everything , online sites the girls dont even reply , what’s wrong with women here? im no superman but im not trash too.

      • Justin

        You’re not alone Marcos, plenty of intelligent and successful guys in your shoes. Check out and read Winston Wu’s book. Start looking abroad, you won’t regret it.

  • RB

    Amen brother… this is SPOT on with my life experience as well.

  • Ashley

    Are you sure that your perception of foreign women is not just a stereotype?

    • Manuel Pfister

      “Stereotypes” are stereotypes because they are true a huge percentage of the time not because they are not. Stereotypes are really just handy rules of thumb that you can rely on being true more often then not. Whiny, pussy liberals that complain about everything have unfortunately turned stereotype into a dirty word. It’s not, it’s just something you observe about something else that’s true most of them time.

  • David

    just found this site and have to say i disagree with alot of stuff first im a male from the uk and i find amrican girls so sexy everything from the way they look to their vouce everything i find girls in the uk some not all to be bitchy have dusqusting habbits etc american girls all the way for me

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      Well, you’re young and you don’t know anything yet. You’ll see what I mean in time.

      • lovelygirljones

        “Well, you’re young and you don’t know anything yet.”
        Who said being young had anything to do with ignorance? I think experience differs depending on who you are and what kind of environment you are raised in.

    • Pay_Lay_Ale


      Do you live in the US or the UK? US and UK women are very similar.

      There are some sexy American women, no doubt. But the issue is that on a scale from 1-10, 3’s and 4’s think they’re 6-7, 6’s and 7’s think they’re 9’s. And the 8 and 9’s think they’re all 10’s. IMAO, the only women that are a 10 are those who are royalty or obscenely wealthy. What is essentially happening in the US is a form of polyandry and polygamy with regular law-abiding, hard-working, average men being treated like trash.

      • Charlie Bushmeister

        And that English royalty is pretty inbred, I wouldn’t put them anywhere near 10. never understood what the BFD was with Princess Di.

        • Manuel Pfister


    • Marcos Tarquinio Simao

      ah yeah u’re a guy from UK , try to be a guy from south america and see if they respect you :)

    • Mingoder

      Well.. UK is not much betters isn’t it ?
      Maybe you compare London which is a shithole to San Francisco.. Or maybe just your UK accent might seem interesting to some chicks.. Or maybe you are just a desperate dick who throws tons of money to get some pusy ..

    • Anna

      Lol David, that’s because UK gals are just a notch worst than the US ones. Most British girls I met traveling in the UK were kind of snobby, though of themselves as Queens and had terrible teeth. The again, other than the Irish, the UK men were quite the same, just a tad nicer…

  • lovelygirljones

    Wow, so much for guys who like people for their personalities. All I hear is something about skinny blondes being attractive. Can’t people be a bit more diverse? Are you speaking for the whole of the American male population? Probably not, although I get an impression like you are. I’m just going to say that I find something really wrong in looking for a thin girl. You probably have a small idea that girls are really insecure about their weight and image, thanks to people like you. Finding your ideal girl is like the example girls finding their ideal boyfriend. Perhaps that is why you have such a bad impression of females.

    • Manuel Pfister

      We have a great impression on non-western females, tubby.

      • lovelygirljones

        Oh, hey, cool! I got a response! I didn’t expect that so soon. My slang vocabulary is so small that I didn’t know what tubby meant. Well, anyways, I think I was called fat, unless I got the wrong definition. So, tubby is probably derived from “tub of lard”, but I’m not sure. I’m just guessing. I have a question about your preference on non-western females-What about immigrants or their children who might or might not be raised in America? Is it the culture you are criticizing, or the people themselves? Some people are genetically fat, and born with a slower metabolism than others. Are you saying that you like the foreign looks or the foreign culture?

        • Manuel Pfister

          “Are you saying that you like the foreign looks or the foreign culture?”


          “Some people are genetically fat, and born with a slower metabolism than others.”

          For every 1 “genetically fat” person you can show me I’ll show you 1,000 lazy, irresponsible, non-exercising, processed food eating, fast food eating fat asses that only have themselves to blame. This “genetically fat” crap is just more whiny, liberal, “it’s everybody’s fault but mine” drivel. If the problem was genetic, the obesity rates in the US would not have sky rocketed in just the last 25 years. People don’t genetically mutate or evolve in just 25 years unless they are living next to Chernobyl maybe. Nice try though. Here’s an idea: if you have a slow metabolism – don’t eat so much!

        • vlad tepid

          Why do guys like non-obese women? Because looking healthy is a sign of health. Have any of these women who complain about “men being pigs” ever taken a biology class? Ever watched the Discovery Channel? Our biological impulses COMMAND us to find healthy, vigorous partners for 1) the ability to carry our offspring to term and 2) to healthily raise up whatever offspring survive infancy. Now we’re not living in caves anymore, but we were only 10,000 years go…How fast do you think genetics can change? Women on the other hand are genetically programmed to find a secure, healthy vigorous partner who can 1) provide her with healthy offspring and 2) provide for those offspring if they survive infancy. And most of the women in the world who we are discussing (Ukrainian, Korean, Thai, Polish, Colombian) still largely think this way. Somehow, Monsanto or McDonald’s or Macy’s has damaged the reward centers of American/British women and now they’re off on some other planet. Fine. We guys just shrug the old shoulders…and broaden our horizons!

          • Manuel Pfister


    • Pay_Lay_Ale

      All I hear is something about skinny blondes being attractive. Can’t people be a bit more diverse? Are you speaking for the whole of the American male population? Probably not, although I get an impression like you are. I’m just going to say that I find something really wrong in looking for a thin girl.

      Yes, many of are quite diverse in tastes. Some prefer blondes. Some brunettes. Or red hair. Or black hair. Some prefer shorter women. Some prefer taller women. Some prefer pale skin. Some prefer a light tan. Some prefer a darker skin. But the research does show that blond hair, blue-eyed, taller women, with a 0.7 waist-to-hip ratio, 5’5″-5’9″, 110-140lb, and medium-sized breasts is the most attractive female to men of all races.

      As for weight, what men are genetically programmed to be attracted to isn’t thin, but normal. You know, the way that women in the US used to be, up until 25 years ago? When I was growing up, there’d be like 1 fat kid in class who would get teased incessantly. Today, a third to half of a class (or more) in ELEMENTARY school are chubby, both male and female.

      We even have terms for how women used to be. Ever hear of the term, “little old ladies?” They were normal. They weren’t called “short fat old ladies.”

  • Wolfie65

    I grew up in Europe and moved to the US in my 20’s, which I regret on occasion, look no further than this post for reasons why.
    Seems to me the no.1 difference is that in Europe, a woman’s attitude will usually more or less match her looks and/or social status.
    A bona fide 10, millionaire’s daughter or actual royalty will have the attitude of a 10, an 8 will have the attitude of an 8, a 6 the attitude of a 6, and so on.
    In the US, the hyperinflated self-worth, princess syndrome and sense of automatic entitlement of 8’s-10’s have left the stratosphere and were last seen headed for Andromeda, 6’s and 7’s believe themselves to be 10’s and act accordingly, even 4’s and 5’s still sport attitudes even an 8 would have trouble getting away with most any place else.

    • Porcupine Glenn

      What you said here could not be more truthful.

    • David

      ….because all women are here to please YOU. Every single female on Earth is custom made just to please YOU, and OH!!!! GOD FORBID IF ONE OF THEM DOESN’T PLEASE YOU OH MIGHTY GOD MASTER LORD KING OF THE UNIVERSE!!!! OHHHH WHATEVER WILL WE DO!!!!!??? Are you listening to yourself? That’s what you sound like. Since you hate America so much, you can get your fucking worthless ass OUT OUT OF IT AT ANY FUCKIN’ TIME!!!!

      • Patrick Woods

        You just reinforced what the article was about. Congratulations. Get the hell out of here.

  • Pay_Lay_Ale

    I lived in Brazil for two years as a Mormon missionary (I’ve since come to my senses). When I was there, the women were all over me. I had to put forth a very concerted effort to avoid having a girlfriend. Nice problem to have, eh? I found that there are many beautiful women there. There are even quite a number of Japanese-Brazilians and German-Brazilians. In fact, Brazil has the largest population of ethnic Japanese outside of Japan of any country in the world. The Favelas (ghettos) were mostly blacks and darker mulattos which I don’t usually find attractive. The middle class and rich areas had some really beautiful women.

    The culture had its good and bad. On average, the women were probably even less-educated/informed than their American counterparts. But this tends to be the case more with men than with women. Most men don’t even finish high school and a large % of women don’t either. But college is free if you have good enough grades. Most middle class people speak some English. Upper-middle class and rich people usually speak English fluently.

    They are starting to fatten up too. When I was there 10 years ago, maybe 5% were obese and maybe another 10% overweight. But according to a recent article, it’s now up to 44%. It appears to be a result of their economy going gangbusters over the last 10 years. They recently discovered what could be the largest remaining oil field in the world offshore.

    Like many Latin cultures, they as a whole are a much friendlier and sociable people than Americans. Most Americans have never spoken to their neighbors. There, everyone knows everyone in the neighborhood. There are a lot of hot young women and they can be loyal and good wives. But it’s also difficult to find a woman 16-25 that doesn’t already have at least 1 kid, especially in the poorer areas. Maybe it’s changed since I was there.

    Gender roles are more clearly established and it is expected that women take care of themselves, including getting cosmetic surgery and boob jobs if they need it. It is completely unacceptable for a woman to not know how to cook/clean and treat her man with respect and admiration.

    For the most part, they love Americans and American culture. What they don’t like is our overseas military adventures and they also feel bullied by the US Govt.

    Goods produced domestically were stupid cheap when I was there, while imported goods were stupid expensive because of a 95% tariff. Filet mignon was $1-2/lb. Oranges and bananas were 5-10 cents per pound. Milk was a buck a gallon. I’m sure this has changed somewhat since the Real has doubled in vale against the dollar in the last 10 years.

    I’m going to go back in 2013 and plan on having a bunch of fun as a single guy. I’m sure I could really slaughter the women there since I speak Portuguese fluently. Casual sex is not as taboo there as it is in the US…

    Shit, this is long enough to almost be a country review…

  • Jello Biafra

    Does anyone have advice on countries were I could find family orientated traditional women preferably not overly materialistic? Or a smart way to meet them anywhere?

    • AquariusMoon

      Asia : )

  • Rupert Pumpernickle

    You nailed it dude – gents, forget traveling to Australia – its easily on par if not worse than the states, such a shame…..

  • David

    nice article, keep it coming…

  • ApacheGirl

    I am a native American female from California. I am not fat, nor am I lazy, I weigh 127lbs and I am 5’10. I exercise regularly, eat healthy, and maintain appearance.

    My opinion on this topic:

    -American women are lazy, narcissistic bitches
    -They complain about their weight yet never do a thing about it, instead they find excuses to get out of changing
    -they are the most money hungry breed of women that exists
    -they lack any sense of cultural diversity, they tend to stay within their own pack of drama filled whores
    -they consume themselves in self help programs, magazines and books, yet they never listen to any direct advice given to them.
    -they make excuses for EVERYTHING they do wrong
    -they don’t work hard for anything, instead they take the easy way out
    -they are either extremely arrogant, or suffer from insecurities

    I could go on and on, but it’s not worth wasting too much of my time on. My point though is I very much agree with your article and appreciate the fact that you have made it so American women can see how they are viewed. I am aware I may sound almost hypocritical because technically I am an American, but I am one of the few full blooded natives that was raised following our traditions and customs first. I have never acted in the ways most American females do, and honestly they should be embarrassed that majority of the world views them this way, but maybe it will give some a wake up call.

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      I certainly did not mean Native American girls when I wrote this! I can’t say I’ve met enough to develop an opinion. Thanks for your comment.

    • Marcos Tarquinio Simao

      im brazilian and living in california and girls here dont even give me a chance to know them , they just care about money , power and status. im not bad looking and have a high educational level. im really a nice guy

  • Holland-loving-dood

    Hi, I’m Romanian-English (English dad, Romanian mother) & I was born & raised in Romania, though English is my 1st language. Anyway, I have to say that the absolute worst girls to date are Romanian girls. You think American girls are bad? You definitely ought to get a load of Romanian girls!
    I’m actually quite angry at my dad for liking Romania better LOL (well, he does make more money than if he’d stayed in London & I suppose the dreary English weather’s factored into the equation as well).
    But Romanian girls are certainly the most ludicrously self-entitled sorry-arse bitches any bloke could lay his eyes on. Thank god I’m moving to Holland for college.
    Picture that classic scenario an American woman projects in her stupid head – ‘oh, I’m waiting for my knight in shining armour on his pacing steed to sweep me off my feet’. OK, now imagine that a zillion times worse. What you get is Romanian girls. At least American girls have much whiter teeth (that obsession is a good thing).
    They think they are the most beautiful, the smartest, the most refined, the most educated, the best polyglots, utterly fantastic lovers, girlfriends & wives, the most devoutly religious people in this decaying world void of spirituality & faith (they are as confident they will go to heaven as the earth is round). Etc. etc.
    Reality check, Romanian bitches!
    Utterly materialistic, they are only interested in men who have money (unfortunately, since I am one of them, I have spent my money thriftlessly on many a skank).
    They expect you to date them (&, of course, pay for everything) for at least five months strong before ANY kind of sex and usually oral is something they WILL never do, because their stupid mums have taught them that such practices are ‘immoral’. The ‘easiest’ girl I’ve ever dated only agreed to have sex with me after 6 weeks (of course, there are exceptions to the rule, but girls who go to bed with a guy after just one date or even after 5 dates or so are looked down upon). Personally, any really easy slut I’ve ever met also had physical drawbacks (such as being unattractive & not taking care of herself that well).

    They think they are the most beautiful girls in Europe at least – they always say: ‘oh, those ugly German, English or Swedish women – they’re so ugly from years of inbreeding, from marrying their cousins etc.). In point of fact, ma’ dear sluttish strumpets (I guess that’s redundant) the most beautiful girls I’ve seen were from Germany – some ridiculously breathtaking redheads with hair down to their butts, slim & slender as the willow tree LOL Tasty cunts, too. (caution: you’ve sometimes gor to have a German male friend to introduce you to these lasses, but once you’re there it’s pretty straightforward).

    Oh, and speaking of hair, Romanian girls totally ruin their hair by dying, curling and straightening it a gazillion times (& they even admit it, they’re addicted to damaging their hair). Very rarely can you see the flowing unaltered blonde Dutch or German hair that many girls have in those respective areas.

    Of course, there are perks (not for me, though). If you’re foreign, ESPECIALLY if you’re American, you have about a 50%-50% chance, because Romanian girls are impressed with ANY foreigner, for some reason. By the same token, quintessentially American stuff like McDonald’s, Burger King & KFC are now becoming the ‘elite’ places to eat & hang out (just because they’re American &, thus, cool). So I fear Romanian girls will also become as fat as they are obnoxious.
    By the way, I’m considered quite good-looking & in shape, but I just can’t put up with the shit Romanian girls stuff down your throat. So there’s no way I could ever have a stable relationship with a Romanian girl (the fact that I’m half English does help, but the fact that I speak Romanian as well kind of dwindles that foreigner effect).
    I’m going to Holland, which is pussy heaven. You can bang a good ole Dutch lass the very day you meet her.

    SO never think you are alone, my fellow Yanks! Us Romanians who happen to have a British father are with ya! Cheers!

    • gregpastik

      You are 100% correct on the romanian girls. The whole society there is messed up, they do not have a chance to understand what is happening. Anyone wanting to understand the messed up nature of the romanian girls mindset should just watch a few minutes of MTV in Romania and see the typical Music video produced by and for these girls. I have far more experience with Romanian girls than I care to admit, and I advise everyone to avoid them like the plague.

      • SeemsTrue

        The “smart” romanian women are actually quite dumb.. they do not actually understand anything – in ANY domain but they will think that because they memorized some shit or because someone says so that is true…

        They judge everyone by how traditional/conservative he is and much is a looser – romanians are basically no ball beggars who are “playing the game” because “that’s what is required”.. They will go to the church because their wife says so,. they will dress like some retard waiter because that is “what is appropriate” and so on.

        And they will listen and agree to all kind of shit just to get laid..
        On the other hand romanians in general are very dumb .. And women cannot think – they are basically you dumb american fatties just that they are not that fat (yet) because they were forced to walk a lot and had no money to eat at macdonalds..

        Then you have the “artists” – basically unsecured frustrated women who think they are better than the dumb bitches because they have “values” .. those values: going to church, doing what the society and traditions and their parents tell them (they will actually be on the phone with their mom telling them everything about you – seeking approval.

        Some of them are ok looking but they are all “psychologically castrated”.
        So the best women in Romania are the dumb bitches – at least they fuck… but that is changing rapidly inmost areas as the amount of money thrown to them increases (low level peasant romanians working abroad in Spain and Italy and throwing money to show off etc). Still better that the average “mormon women”.

    • stealthattack

      Sounds like you are a homosexual.

  • EmanTheDesperateHouseboy

    I have just this to add…

    It’s because of the attitudes and behaviors of most of these American females that I’ve sworn them off and decided to go ‘woman-less’. Beauty and appearances can be deceiving, yet it’s more than that. Life’s too damn short to convince a flaky, unappealing, or stuck-up girl to like me when 99% of the time, they genuinely do not like you or want you around.

    NO! to Ameriskanks!!!

    [BTW, I’m another mid-30s black male reader of yours! FIRST POST–I’m finally glad to visit your site…]


  • The Truth

    from My experiences American B***ches!! Are stupid, Self centered, lazy, Self Centered, spoiled, overrated b***ches!! They easily think they have the best P**sy in the World. They want to talk down the beautiful hot girls overseas. Haters!!!! You lazy, spoiled, self centered b***ches can enjoy the dumb brain washed dudes that continue to treat y’all like the best thing on the planet. I’ll keep having fun with girls overseas who appreciates a good guy. I know I’m being an ass, i used to be one of these very nice guys who do anything for these american women. And how I treated, like CRAP!!! I’m done with american women. It’s time to just enjoy overseas woman!!! i ain’t complaining!!! Keep Hating!!!

  • Thurston Howell III

    Let me give you some perspective from a never-married, successful guy in his mid-40’s who’s lived in Asia and London…

    There is little difference between American women and foreign women. Sure, they have a different sound, look and style, but they are basically the same. If you meet one overseas and bring her back to the US, she will eventually change into an American woman. I know guys who have done it and it always turns out the same. Now, if you want to travel for a little pay-for-play, then Brazil, Colombia and Southeast Asia are excellent. But, don’t kid yourself into thinking that bringing a foreign girl home will lead to happy-ever-after. It’s no different if you move there either. Trust me.

    There are plenty of beautiful American women that would make fantastic wives. However, as an American man, you need to take a different approach and perspective in landing one.

    Basically, you need to think like a woman.

    Let’s face it, the US divorce courts are BRUTAL to the money-maker in the marriage, not the neccessarily the man. I know female breadwinners that got slaughtered in the courts when they got divorced. It happens. So, in the modern world, you need to approach relationships with women like women do with men.

    Always look to marry-up like they do, or, at least, marry at-par. If she doesn’t have a serious career with serious income potential, kick her to the curb. The streets are paved with hot chicks who took the easy way, like an Art History degree resulting in a series of lame, shitty, low paying jobs. Ignore them, they are trash, and you can rent one by the hour off of the internet if you really need one. Face it, they treat men the same way, so fuck it if it sounds callous. We are discussing your future happiness here. I won’t consider a second date if she doesn’t have a solid career and bringing in a respectable income. In the modern world, it’s all about numbers to the courts, so make damn shure she is carrying her weight in the relationship or get rid of her. It’s that simple and they have been doing it for centuries.

    But, please, don’t kid yourself into thinking they are any different because they grew-up somewhere else. They are all the same.

    • Manuel Pfister

      About bringing a foreign woman to the US or other typical western countries agree 100%, and we explicitly stated this in other articles. However, we vehemently disagree with the rest of it. Some foreign girls are truly better, you can find good ones and you can live happily ever after with them abroad. You do not need to become a male gold digger to succeed either. If your experience has been different you are doing something wrong.

      • Thurston Howell III

        Manuel, when the novelty wears-off in a few years, you’ll understand exactly what I’m saying. Enjoy your time with your foreign girlfriend. I’ve had many and they are a lot of fun.

    • bbqchickenrobot3

      Such a shame that even one person thinks this way. Love is fucked!

    • Michael

      Amazing how you reduce love into a financial transaction, By applying your logic why should I marry better to find a prostitute, whether hooker or house wife you pay for the sex. Also men married to foreign women have much lower divorce rates then those who marry USA women…

    • stealthattack

      Sounds like you are gay since you hate younger women.

  • Jason

    I stumbled on this site while planning out my Euro Trip and thought this post was interesting. It reminded me of my own perception of women in the US when I was new to the country 6 years ago. When I interacted with white american girls, most of them seem to deal with their own insecurities. Some who were single feeling insecure about their single status, others who were in a relationship feeling insecure why they were not married yet. This was confirmed when a female(white american) coworker was coming on to me and when I subtly (and politely) sent a message I wasn’t interested, she became a racist just because I didn’t wanna date her. I was beginning to form an opinion by then and it was interesting to see this article confirming some of it.

    I dated a Colombian, South-east asian who came to the US at age 12, Chinese who came to the US 5 years ago, a Korean who was very new to the country. Colombian was a crazy party girl and fun was the only thing on her mind. South-east asian (she was a 10/10 in looks) was very loving (I think it comes from the asian culture) but she had the insecurities and was materialistic (from being in the US for 15 years I would think). Chinese was loving, fun and the most incredible in bed of all. She would even pay for dinners sometimes without my knowledge. Korean was the sweetest of all but materialistic. I met a Russian girl I met that was the complete package – gorgeous (she has two kids), really sweet, slim, respectful, fun to hang around and most importantly wasn’t insecure. I didn’t get to date her as she was married but I gotta tell ya, I’m still in love with her.

    I think at the end of the day cheating, materialistic characteristics, lack of respect, divorces are more common in affluent countries (some girls that were not materialistic to begin with become so after migrating to the affluent countries). So, if the money flows to the east someday, the east would be the now west with all its problems. But until then, I will stick with Asians and Eastern europeans :)

  • James

    LMFAO !!!!! This article is 100% spot on. Ive been single for nearly 3 years now….longest stretch in my adult life and every woman I meet is grossly overweight, covered in tattoos, incredible selfish and jealous of just a plain lunatic. I thought I was being picky or something…i sensed something was up…because it seems all of these AW’s are retarded. I refuse to be an emotional kickstand for women and this is a full time job babysitting AW’s.
    NOTE: I workout 2x day and have an 8pack, so kiss my ass—I have a Masters Degree too.


    NO TATTOOS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      Hilarious comment.

    • Justin L.

      I”I refuse to be an emotional kickstand for women ” .. seriously, that’s going on my tombstone. I LOL’d, a lot

  • Keyser

    Thank you to all of you .. I’m male, non-American, and find this American Guy vs. American ‘Gal’ ruckus highly entertaining.

    On a serious note, If there’s a problem with American girls then the guys are as much to blame …… don’t you see that? Girls don’t develop personalities in a vacuum, they pick up on signals and behaviors that the guys foster and promote as much as the girls. If they’re materialistic – well, it’s no secret that American society is pretty materialistic.

    My perspective ? – well, I live in Dubai where you meet more nationalities than you have hot dinners …… I’ve been able to relate to girls from pretty much anywhere, not many american girls out here but I’ve gotta say, I do find them a bit – – – – difficult to talk to, maybe? It’s like there’s a formula you need to crack before getting to first base, whereas with europeans, asians, latinos i can pretty much be myself and take it from there.

    Adios and look me up if you’re in this bizarre and fascinating neck of the woods.

  • Alana

    I stand corrected! You ARE in a relationship with a foreign woman.. and you still think she’s exotic… So as you stated to me earlier, there is no reasoning with you. I don’t want to bash your relationship, and believe me I’m not. But when I say “substance” I mean after the honeymoon, lustful stage has worn off. If you still look at her as an exotic foreigner, then I would say it has not. I know you don’t agree with me, but it should wear off, and hopefully it does (lust can only take you so far). JUST AN OPINION- don’t get a stress induced eye-twitch because you think I’m bashing your relationship, please.

  • Alana

    Anonymous/Sophia- you’re wonderful….

    and Manuel, you need to lay off a bit (or maybe just get laid =) joooking). You seem like an incredibly hostile person, which isn’t attractive- I’m guessing that your European ladies won’t take to it either. I can admit that there is some truth to what you say about me. Nevertheless, I am not going to praise you for your realization, because I put it out there for everyone to see. Maybe I’m a bit of an “idealist”, but I’m enjoying life and have met a lot of interesting people and have had many wonderful experiences due to the fact that I’ve decided to drop any prejudices or judgments that overgeneralizing would otherwise force me to have. Now…. you on the other hand… would like to live in a bubble of beautiful women and parties. If that is not a “fantasy world that you have meticulously constructed for yourself” then I don’t know what is. You’re in your mid-30s calling people stupid for writing their ideas in a forum (which is invented specifically for this purpose) and you truly think that what matters is to be “prettier and more physically fit than others”….. I would really love to see you. You must be incredibly handsome to be entitled to bashing the overweight and screwing the perfect.

    I’m not sure if you actually have relationships with the models you speak of, or if you just write about the desire. Either way, after actually having relationships (of substance) and trying to find out who a person is, you will understand what I am trying to say. You have led me to believe that you haven’t, OR YOU WOULD KNOW BY NOW that people are people. Some are smarter, prettier, more in shape, more artistic… I think the differences are great. We are overweight, underweight, whatever- at the end of the day us women take off our make-up and put on similar pajamas. This isn’t a fantasy world, it’s reality; you’re just too dense to comprehend it. Lacking depth will result in missing out on something great. You should date around- a variety of different women- you may enjoy yourself!

    You state that I am an “idiot” – or imply that I’m a bit of a hippie- but I think a little yoga and a vegan diet will do you good…. All that red meat might be what’s stressing you out 😉

    • Justin

      Hello Alana. I thought I would just put my two cents in, even though this reply is two years late.

      A lot of us men are bitter because of our experiences with American women. I come from an educated, good-looking family. My extended family is rather handsome too. My male cousins, brother, and myself have reached similar conclusions (now in our late 20s) about the princess syndrome and self-entitlement that plagues many women in America. Same with my male buddies. We know how to play the game and do very well for ourselves, but to me it’s exhausting and unfulfilling. You are a woman, so you don’t truly understand what it is like on the other side of the fence nor do you have the experience of dating women from a male perspective. The Americans girls I have been with have been selfish, entitled, and expect you to do everything for them. Many have turned out to not be long-term relationship material, although only one girl I dated for several years seemed like quality material until she turned into a slut years down the line. I agree with other posters that if a girl is a 3 or a 4, she will act like a 6 or a 7. A 6 or a 7 will act like an 8 or a 9. It seems that 80% of the girls want the top 20% of guys, and anything less is considered settling, even if a 6 or a 7 is dating a male 6 or 7.

      Sadly, I would argue that the majority of American women want to sleep around through their 20s and settle down with some chump when they hit their biological wall. The theory is that women, as they approach 30 or so, don’t have as many options because their age starts to show. The more handsome men can still sleep with younger women. Post-wall women begin to “lower their standards” (the standards they had for the handsome stallions they slept with during their 20s but would not commit to them). These women begin to look for stability and settle with a financially stable nice guy that they aren’t as physically attracted to and would have easily overlooked in their 20s. Its sounds all hunky dory for the nice guy who gets married to the beautiful girl, right? He won! He beat all those alpha studs in the end! But the problem is a general rule of thumb of mine: you can’t make a wife out of a whore.

      Let’s use the analogy of credit history. If you were a credit lender, obviously you would perform a background credit check on a client to see if they are eligible for a loan. After all, you don’t want someone who is high-risk, and therefore more statistically likely to default on a loan. I believe the same is true of some women. If a girl slept through her 20s and didn’t experience fulfilling and emotionally satisfying relationships, she won’t magically become good relationship material in her late 20s/early 30s just because she “matured” and decided she wanted a stable relationship. Those women have been making late payments, defaulting on credit, or even declaring bankruptcy in their 20s, but when 30 rolls around they want to qualify for a big huge loan (marriage with the best they can get). Unfortunately, some men are not as careful as credit lenders. The quality men will perform “background checks” and pass on them. But thirsty men, the type of men who were ignored all throughout their 20s by women in general, the ones that applied themselves, and secured a great job will probably look at their “sex credit history” and still give them a chance because they truly believe they can do no better. Guess what? Those selfish women in their 20s are still going to be selfish in their 30s. They will be just as entitled. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks, old habits die hard, etc. They will likely become shitty mothers and make for shitty partners that don’t treat their husband well. If you’re a financially well-off guy, guess what? 50% of marriages end in divorce and that court system is designed to take the guy to the bank. You may lose your children and a lot of your money. Thanks to no-fault divorce, even if your wife is a cheating whore, she will gladly profit from child-support and alimony. Your comfy 80k a year is now supporting your wife and her deadbeat badboy boyfriend, and your kids are now part of a broken home because mommy couldn’t close her legs. No thanks.

      So what is a man to do? Well there is a vanishingly small percentage of women in America who are not like that. Ones that don’t sleep around and don’t have one night stands. Girls like that who are on the 8-10 attraction scale are urban legends. There are some 6-7s around. We all know the type, but they got into relationships in their early 20s, already have satisfying partners, and so on. Then there are the type of women that nobody wants, typically fatter women. Sorry, but I take great care of my body. I regularly work out, have a 6 pack, nice arms, and a big chest. I push myself hard everyday for what I have. I don’t want some fatty, but I don’t want some entitled cunt either. I just want an equal partnership with mutual respect. I’m not looking for a 10, just someone on a similar attraction scale as myself (7-8 range). I am nearing that age where I want to have a family, but my options are single moms, fatties, and the rare unicorn 6-7 that is impossibly difficult to find. Is it shallow to not want a 5 or below? Yeah, probably. But considering the amount of women that approach me in bars, etc, I feel like I’ve earned a face that’s easy on the eyes. So now, I am considering dating abroad.

      I actually recently travelled to Japan on business and met an incredible girl. I had no intention of meeting anyone in Japan, but it just sort of happened. This girl is a solid 8: petite, nice chest and ass (for a Japanese girl? My god), stunning facial aesthetics, and she takes fantastic care of her physical appearance. She is humble, affectionate, and extremely caring. I’ve been dating her for several months and it has been like no relationship I’ve ever been in before. She takes care of me, and I her. She loves animals and I can see what a loving and caring wife/mother she would be. She is incredibly family oriented and is very close with her mother and two sisters. Being a mother is her dream. She is completely selfless and refuses that I pay for her meals. She will even try to carry my belongings or clean my room. I have to tell her not to, ha. Imagine that with an American girl! Not only that, but she has had only 3 other sexual partners in her lifetime and when I told her how hook-up culture in America was like she was disgusted and commented that American girls are dirty. But lets just reflect on that number for a moment. My god, just 3 partners!!!! An 8 in America has had so much dick up her ass that she lost count at 35.

      Fellow men that want a wife (not a whore) and a loving partner that is attractive, go foreign. I can’t be the only guy that randomly meets a solid 8 and she happens to be the exception in a country like Japan. No, that humble and selfless attitude is likely the standard in a country like Japan and dumb american sluthood is the exception. Get it while you still can.

      Oh and to the fat apologists that claim some American women are obese because of genetic disorders. I would argue that accounts for an extremely small percentage of women. Guess how many fat girls I saw in Japan during my 1 week stay? Zero. I saw maybe 3 or 4 fat men. Let that sink in just a little. Zero fat girls. “Those girls must be anorexic and have eating disorders!! Real women have curves!!” No, these women just know how to take care of themselves. They cook healthy meals and care deeply about their physical appearance. When I went canoeing on a popular river this past weekend it was a struggle to find a thin girl. All the thin girls were from different cultural backgrounds (hispanic or asian). The white females were massive land whales, with just a few that were thin. Fucking sad. These fat american women were eyeing me like a piece of cake too because women love the muscles.

      • stealthattack

        Men that talk about their looks tend to molest boy. So clearly you are gay.

  • Anonymous

    It’s great that you find foreign women amazing, but they aren’t so highly praised in their countries either.
    Fact: Foreigners visiting a new country are often very interesting and better liked than someone from ones own home field.
    Everyone deserves to be defended, even you. All of your male counterparts rise in to jump at your defense, don’t they? I’m simply complying to explain the situations of those in America.
    I could say the same for American men: they are sedentary, unskilled, undeniably rude, disrespectful and abusive. I haven’t met one man that hasn’t tried to hurt or control me at their every expense and I do not seemysefl as someone worth holding onto so tightly or extremely beautiful. At the same time, I can admit that better men are out there and they aren’t hard to find when looking in the right places. Also,looking for:common interests, morals, and outlooks on life along with future goals. I’m not talking about getting married or having kids, my personal nightmare, but I’m talking simply about being a team. American men crack so many jokes about a woman’s place being in his kitchen and while it comes off as a joke, it is expected. Along with sustaining the children, caring for him and listening and reacting to his every whim. I don’t want a relationship that men like you expect. I don’t want a man to love me because I baby him. I want someone who cares like I do, who wants to be part of a team, not divided conquests. Someone who can come home and help cook a dinner, or help do the laundry or help mow the lawn. A little teamwork goes a long way in sustaining a relationship. But women and men both do not understand that. As soon as you stop sugar coating everything for American men, they hate you. You’re a bitch, you’re insane. Whatever beef it may be. It’s astoundingly pathetic. It goes the same for women, but not all of us are like that.
    I would hate to depend on a man in any situation, it has nothing to do with being a snobby uptight princess, it’s merely the fact of: What if this doesn’t work out? I have no career, nothing to fall back on? Where will I go?
    I don’t want to worry about that. I want to be able to take care of myself in case something like that ever happens.
    On top of this, I don’t worry about men, they’re useless to me. I don’t have any interest in dating or marrying, or even looking at one. It’s not for me. Dating is not for me at all, and I’m sure there will come a time when one just takes my breath away: race, origin, skin color, eye color, height, weight, style, fitness all irrelevant, because truly knowing a real person is looking past the flaws and accepting them as what and who they are, not the looks that will wilt as soon as a few centuries pass.

  • Anonymous

    I must comply, as a fellow American, and female that there are disgraces amongst us. And many at that. There are girls out there that I would presumably like to shake until common sense kicks in, but in all honesty, there are girls like that everywhere. Not just in America. Secondly, American men aren’t much better, I’m not sure exaclty, Charlie, where you come from. Whether it be another country or America, but there are many wonderful women in our country smart and tasteful. They are hard to find, but so is a good man. Smart girls expect an equal relationship based on trust and give-and-take, not money that is disgusting. A woman in a relationship for money has no drive for life, no passion and no plans for her future. Overall, your article was amusing and I could appreciate the take on our female population for the humorous side it had, with a taste of the cold truth. It was refreshing. Thank you, but maybe you should think of women who have intellect from America as well.
    To finish, I must add you sound shallow. Not to be impolite, I’m sorry if it offends you. Yes girls should take more pride in their appearance, but what about the girl who is obese? She may have a disease and can’t lose weight because of internal issues that prevent her from so, or maybe the girl wearing sweats and cheap clothing can’t afford it because she’s paying her way through college? Before we turn on the judgement, ponder situations and don’t follow the mainstream ideas that the rest of the world bases their judgmental attitudes on. Some girls can help themselves, but in reality, evryone faces a battle and creating a ‘book cover’ so to speak of their entire being is pure vanity, think before you judge. That is all I would like to say. Again, fantastic article, I mean it.

    • Manuel Pfister

      “but there are many wonderful women in our country smart and tasteful” They are few and far between, cerntaly not “many”.

      “A woman in a relationship for money has no drive for life, no passion and no plans for her future.” Agreed.

      “Yes girls should take more pride in their appearance, but what about the girl who is obese? She may have a disease and can’t lose weight because of internal issues that prevent her from so” Not bloody likely. For every one person that has a real medical condition that makes it near impossible for them to lose weight there are 100 that are just plain lazy and irresponsible with their diets.

      “Yes girls should take more pride in their appearance, but what about the girl who is obese? She may have a disease and can’t lose weight because of internal issues that prevent her from so” Who says looking presentable costs tons of money? It doesn’t. Knockoffs look just as good as the real designer shit and often times they’re made in the same factory. Take a tour around eastern Europe where in some countries it’s normal to subsist on salaries of $100 – $500 per month – girls still take pride in their appearance and look stunning.

      Lame excuses you’re putting up for the American Chicks.

      • Anonymous

        They are not lame, I’m not poor, Manuel, and I don’t care about what European girls look like, although, Americans orginated from the Europeans. (Anyone who has studied general history could assume that), but our country is sinking further and further into poverty. People don’t have the money to keep their homes or even feed their children sometimes. The people who actually deserve help from our drowning government can’t get it. So if you haven’t seen everyday issues that Americans as a whole, not just women face, maybe you shouldn’t be so quick to offer your pointless remarks. Rail thin girls aren’t beautiful or healthy, neither are larger girls, but both are destroying their bodies, others because they don’t have the motivation to stop it and anorexics because it makes them feel beautiful and accepted by a twisted world. Men are too shallow to see past any of that, and I’m not big on women’s rights. I’m no feminist, I believe in men being better in some aspects than women and vice versa, but seriously. America is not the only country with obese women.
        I will add it’s quite sad when girls, younger than the age of sixteen and older than seven begin eating disorders in fear of being ostracized by peers and society. It really is, children shouldn’t worry about such things and should be children. But twisted views like beautiful girls whom are ‘skinny’ create woes like that in life.
        I know, for instance, my atheletic trainer is a larger woman, but she works out for two hours a day and eats nothing but organic food ever since she left her home, and she still weighs a decent amount. She’s no size zero or one, but she’s healthy. What can you say about that? Some women, although they make overly healthy choices cannot help it. You can’t change the genetic makeup of your body. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, so embrace life. Looks don’t last.

      • Anonymous

        I’m not trying to say that there aren’t pathetic girls mentioned above, but I do not like being generalized as fat, brainless, conceited, incompetent to others around the world, or pitifully independent on some man’s money.
        I’m not the smartest girl on the planet, of course not, I have my downfalls consiting of mathematics and sciences, but hand me brilliant works belonging to Shakespeare, Chaucer, or even the wisdom of Confucius and I could decipher it easily, give me a paint brush and I could paint anything with the utmost realism. Give me a language and I learn it like I was born speaking it. I’m American and yet I’m fluent in Russian, Spanish, French, German, Vietnamese and a pinch of Hindi. I excel in history, I can remember anything and spit it back out like I had just heard it five minutes ago. I’m in love with Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata and Claude Debussy’s Clair de Lune.
        Everyone is good at something, even in America, and although we aren’t all-around exceptional we have talents. The most offensive part of your mind set is you truly believe women are hard to find in America that are worth the time and effort of a person such as yourself.
        When you look for outer beauty or become picky with flaws, ebacuse everyone has them, whether they’re on the outside or hidden within their personality, they do become difficult to find for shallow men like yourself.
        Like I said, the only reason I don’t like this article, even though I do find it amusing in some ways, is because I become one of the generalized imbeciles created in our country.

        • Charlie Bushmeister

          Relax, sweetheart, there are exceptions, and not all American chicks are terrible. Like I said in the article:

          “Now before you get all pissed off at that absurd generalization, I will say that of course, America is a huge country with 300 million people in it and there are plenty of good American girls out there. Some of our favorite girlfriends have been American, but they were the exception to the rule and not the norm. Your odds in America of finding a quality woman are bad these days and only getting worse.”

          The average American girl is just not competitive with the average girl in most other countries in appearance, intellect, or niceness. Fact. Get over it.

          Instead of wasting your time sticking up for the average overweight stupid American chick, try to make the most of your advantages and rise to the top. That’s what we dudes from America, where the average dude is also fat and stupid, are doing with our lives.

  • Alana

    Charlie- I am not nit-picking, I completely understand that we are the only ones who call ourselves “America”. On documents we select “American” as nationality, but we never select “America” as the country in which we live. I didn’t deny the fact that it is immediately comprehensible- I simply stated that fact that people in other countries tend not to like that- if you made local friends in other countries instead of hanging out with other visitors who are there to find exotic chicks then you would surely know that by now.

    Austin- You only took the time to look at what I said at the end (which was intended to be a joke, hence the smiling face). I am not a hater. “A lion in a cage no longer realizes he’s a lion and soon forgets how to roar”. I can throw out those quotes as well, and I continue to move/work/live abroad. I have nothing to be hateful about. In reality, I hope that everyone who prefers to live abroad can continue to do so- I just believe that it’s pathetic to never realize that we are all just people (no matter where we come from) and you don’t have to put down one culture (albeit your own) in order to talk highly of another.

    Manuel- 1) I can’t believe you are 30 and still calling people “stupid”. 2) I don’t have thunder thighs- I’m actually a bit on the thin side (not due to an eating disorder- I’ll beat you to that one Charlie) but I wouldn’t be mad if I did have them. 3) I can’t believe you called him “Juan”. 4) You assume that Latino guys want a meal ticket- you have discrimination written all over you- I’ll only assume your girlfriend is European….I can’t take you seriously…

    Nobody has addressed my previous comment of real substance. We are all people buried underneath culture- try to uncover it if you really want to get to know someone. You cannot say that only one type of person exists in a country of such a huge population. I prefer other cultures to my own, but I’d rather bash the government than the people. Common guys, I mean, I know you’re men, but you can’t be that dense…

    • Manuel Pfister


      You cannot be argued with because you are one of those idiots that thinks everybody is equal. That’s a nice fairy tale but it’s not true in the real world. Some people are prettier than others, some are smarter than others, some are more physically fit and so on. A disproportionate amount the stupid ones (and the fat ones for that matter) come from the gold old US of A. While your weight is anyone’s guess your intelligence level leaves no doubt. I consider a person like you not taking me “seriously” to be a badge of honor. Not to mention you couldn’t take me seriously because if you did it would cause the fantasy world you have meticulously constructed for yourself to come crashing down all around you and you’d like end up in a mental hospital. Anyway, quite simply, you are not in my target audience so I couldn’t really care less what you have to say.

  • Ron

    After months of research on a wide variety of topics, I have been convinced that there has been an insidious, hidden agenda to dismantle America almost since the inception of our country. One of the primary targets of this dismantling has been the institution of family and the traditional and biblical institution of marriage. More recently, the Feminism movement, television and media, the educational system, the breakdown in traditional family values and quality time, the development of social welfare programs, the positive status afforded to single parenthood, the ease in obtaining divorce (and lack of stigma), the sexualization of everything in our culture, the acceptance of homosexuality, the decline in our standard of living (inflation) which has resulted in dual wage earners needed to raise a family and latch key children raised to entertain themselves with moronic tv programming (brainwashing to perpetuate all of the above) or violent electronic games, and this list could go on and on couldn’t it. Bottom line, our nation was founded to escape the tyranny of the English monarchy and has been perverted to something resembling the Roman Empire… the way back is through the bible and love of God first, wife second, children third, and then all others.

  • Alana

    Ah… and I forgot to mention- us American women may not be quite popular here, but may be considered exotic in other countries… What you see in a latina woman, the latino men may see in us. Food for thought.

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      It’s amazing, those Latino guys will just slobber all over an overweight pasty gringa. They can keep her, please be our guests.

      • Manuel Pfister

        LOL! They may also be viewing her as a meal ticket…

      • Anonymous


        The comments provided above were rude, Alana was simply stating her opinions and yet you fire her down? Because you think she is dull and mindless stating her thoughts, and you percieve her thoughts unworthy of respect. You can disagree, but in all honesty you wouldn’t be saying tasteless things in reply to her opinion. You should understand Charlie, if you would like to dish it out, then you really should take be able to take it. If you can state your opinions, we may also state them too. I did not call you an imbecile based on your opnions, now have I? I really don’t care what men think of me, I’m no gift to the human race, I’m no genius, I have flaws. I have things I do not love about myself. I have made mistakes, and I also know I don’t need to defend myself against you or anyone else, male or female. I am me. That’s all I would like to be, judge me if you like, but that’s it. There’s nothing else to it. Rip me to shreds as you have insulted Alana, but in the end has it done anything for you? Have you created an accomplishment in bringing another person down? Do you really find yourself above the women you have just profiled and discriminated yourself against?
        Charlie, I am very young and I have much to learn and experience, but still I think it is frightening when you as a grown man, do not understand you are putting yourself at risk of critisism by posting things in this way, and that you will recieve negative feedback. And coming from the electronic age, I understand right now, that fully you have every right to dismantle my opnion because I posted this on my own accord. So I think, you should not be so quick to tear down Alana’s opinion, for if you did not want to have it known in the first place you wouldn’t make such discriminations in public.
        I have been raised in America, I am thankful for what I have, and thankful for the people that have touched my life in negative and postitive ways because it helps me to grow. But I wonder, sadly, if your life has any depth to it? Do you truly enjoy life? Or do you enjoy pretty women? It sounds like as an adult, your life is useless, how on Earth have you conrtibuted to the human race that should allow me to percieve you as a notable figure?
        I could go on and on, but I’ll save that for after you pick apart my theories, with your followers, but the case in which you have treated Alana, it is quite saddening that you can claim to be elegenat and polite. I couldn’t even imagine such actions within your grasp. Have you ever watched Shallow Hal? Starring Jack Black? It’s a wonderful selection and I think, although it’s made purely for entertainment, you could learn much from it. I say with respect for you Charlie. I’m not being bitter and I’m not saying women of that description aren’t as typical as grass on the ground in Pennsylvania, but in with all due respect, please remind me that chivalry isn’t dead.

        Until then,

        • Charlie Bushmeister

          What did I say that was rude to Alana? Don’t blame me for our other readers’ comments, we have an open forum here.

          • Anonymous

            I don’t blame you, and some of the comments on your part throughout this forum were shocking. Have pride, it’ll make you look better in the end.

          • Charlie Bushmeister

            There’s not having pride, and there’s being honest. I just call it as I see it, as is my responsibility as a journalist. Accusing the messenger doesn’t change the truth that the vast majority of American chicks are low quality. I appreciate that you’re such a nice girl and want to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. But 99% of the American girls (and guys) who look like fat slobs, are indeed, fat slobs.

            I’ve been around long enough and seen enough of the alternative that I think my single dude compatriots deserve to know what their others options for life are.

          • Anonymous

            Honesty is brutal yes, but a true and sensible gentleman would deliver it in a gracious way. I also, would like to know, what it is that doesn’t make you some slob simply sitting on your computer bashing others and ranting about your womanizing tendencies as you travel abroad? A journalist? Are you a real journalist Charlie?
            I never said I was a nice girl, nor did I say I was not. I’ve studied a lot on psychology in my spare time, practiced reading people, discovered many things throughout my studies and learned to put them to use. It sickens me, that by being a United States citizen, I am pegged as thick and ‘brainless’ for lack of a better term. I’m not a shallow person, and I’m not looking at the outside, people who go through rough times tend to look the way they feel, hopeless.
            I think you are self-concious as well. Why else are you hiding behind a mask?

      • Anonymous

        Oh and I highly apologize the error in my sentence, it was meant to be ‘with all do respect’ not ‘in with all due respect’. I hate to leave behind errors.

  • Alana

    To the author and all who have posted,

    It is a bit embarrassing that you refer to the United States as “America”. You want to travel- there is one thing that you should get right first, because I’ve found in my travels that it pisses people off- America consists of all countries in North, Central and South America. Not just the United States.

    Whoever posted statistics about overweight Americans- this includes males as well as females.

    I agree that it is sad and pathetic how little we (all) know as Americans regarding geography- but that’s something that (in general) we all lack, and this is due to our ethnocentrism and (sad to say) our education. Ignorance is not the same as stupidity. If you’ve never been told and you haven’t taken the time to learn on your own you’re ignorant, not stupid.

    I’ve been traveling for years now teaching abroad and now I am in a committed relationship with a Uruguayan man, and it’s not because he’s exotic. The idea of being exotic goes away after about a year, trust me.

    You guys are bored- I get it. You want someone who looks and acts a little different from the standard- us girls do too. However, in the end I hope you realize that underneath culture (and when the exciting cultural and language barriers wear off) you are going to find out that everyone is essentially just the same. Wipe off the culture, and people are all just people. I used to hate “America” as well, but I’ve gotten over it after this realization.

    Sorry, but more than likely you will all get married to American women. My bet is that just about everyone here is in their mid 20s. Once you run out of money you will come home and have to work a 9-5. You will meet an American woman, settle down, reminisce about your flings in foreign countries and you’ll be just fine. =)

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      Nobody, I mean nobody other than those people from the United States of America refer to their country as “America” or themselves as “American”. So it’s a shorthand which a normal non nit-picker understands instantly.

      I will never work a 9-5.

      • M

        Concur. I work with some Canadians and if I want to spin them up I remind them that they are too Americans. They don’t like that at all.

    • Austin

      Young man what ever you do don’t come back and be another sheep.. Keep your freedom.. Don’t believe the settle down hype… Everything about travel is not about money.. it’s who you associate with… Always remember. A ship in harbor is safe, but that’s not what ships are made for… This Ship was made too sail…D on’t bother your mind with stories for others.. there just haters! (an I’m 51, and hell yeah theres a lot of hunt in this dog!)

      • Charlie Bushmeister


    • Manuel Pfister

      My poor stupid little United States citizen girl, you just don’t get it. Charlie beat me to it though. You are so wrong on all counts it’s unbelievable. I’m mid 30’s and after spending over 20 years in the United States and over 6 years abroad my convictions about the stupidity and all the other flaws of the US women only grow stronger every day. Not only that but I love my foreign girlfriend more ever day not less. Her intelligence and exotic nature does not diminish with time. My intentions to never return to the United States also become more and more set in stone by the day. You simply couldn’t be more wrong. Your rationalization hamster is impressive though. Good luck with Juan, don’t crush him to badly with your thunder thighs…

      • Piñata

        How low can you go, man? Don’t attack people by criticizing his/her weight! I don’t really think you actually know what he/she looks like. Well, whatever, I’m pretty dumb for focusing on that first. Anyways, I’m happy for your girlfriend! Wait, you’re not married? Just curious, when did you start dating? How old is she and do you want to get married? Sorry for being a little nosy. Agh, too many questions. Maybe I should explore this site more.Well anyways, eventually, her exotic nature might either fade away as you adjust to the culture or possibly serve as a barrier between you two. How do you approach your relationship? I know my paragraph flow is terrible, my words are choppy, and I tend to focus on beating people (including myself) down while still apologizing. I suck.

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  • Bertster

    OMG….not only do most American women suck, the GREAT majority are STUPID as well…..

  • Bill

    Bertster, I sympathize. But you don’t have to be alone. Just start dating foreign women and avoiding American women, especially white women. If you scroll up to my post above, you will see I had a great experience and foreign women are much nicer. Trust me, just try it.

  • Bertster

    Dude…you are SO right…American women, for the most part, SUCK!! Being a divorced single man, dating today is just plain insane!! No matter what the f%ck I say/do/spend, I’m wrong, dull, boring, cheap (two dinners at $110.00 a pop…not a f’n red cent from HER!)….as much as I hate being alone, I get along with myself JUST FINE!!!!

    • Piñata

      These days, it’s so hard to find the right girl.

  • Stories From The Air

    For once I hear the truth about America from Americans themselves. What you I from your politicians and media is that you people are mini-gods and the rest of the world especially China are monsters.

    Well, I suppose you are all hypocrites. You preach your values but you betray them as quickly as your preach them.

  • Bill

    I am a mid-30s, white American male with a Ph.D. in biochemistry and earn an excellent salary and living. I’m also very athletic and tall and women compliment me a lot on my good looks. When I was growing up, I learned from American media that women’s lives were worth more than mine. Let me explain: In war, I was expected to die for our country whereas women were not; it was expected that I ask women out on dates and pay for their food yet not vice versa; it was expected that I hold doors for women yet no woman ever held a door for me; in a disaster I was taught to give up my life for a woman (and children) yet she was not for me; in civil disputes, I learned that women are perceived as innocent until proven guilty whereas it is the opposite for men. In essence, as a man growing up in America, I was taught that my life was worth less than a woman’s and that I am guilty until proven innocent. I had to apologize for being a man. My relationship with women cemented these ideas. Not one American woman I ever dated proved these teachings false. In fact, I learned really quickly that American women are so busy trying to be men, they forgot how to be woman. They cheat a lot and are extremely self-centered. Thankfully, in graduate school while getting my PhD I met a woman who was so wonderful I couldn’t believe it. She didn’t make me apologize or feel guilty just for being a man. She treated me with respect. Not only that, but she is extremely brilliant, thin and beautiful. That’s right, she is Chinese Malaysian. We are expecting our first baby this June and I love her very much. After meeting her and visiting Asia, I was so refreshed to see that not all women act like the entitled, mean and self-centered women that are prevalent in America. My advice for American men is that I really and truly sympathize with you guys. If you can, just avoid American women and marry Southeast Asian women or Eastern European.

    • Bertster

      Good for you, Bill…sounds like you got luck and found a wonderful woman….and I TOTALLY AGREE with everything you posted…her’s another…my ex walked out on me when my daughter was 13 1/2 years old…I got custody AND child support from my ex…but…I did it ALL!! And not once, NOT ONCE!!!, did I EVER use the excuse “That I’m a single Dad” like SOOOO many women use to get more than what is warranted….I did it all from Mr. Mom to Mr. Dad….without ANY excuses…my daughter went to and graduated from Vanderbilt Univ and got her Master’s from NYU…not bad for a single Dad, don’t you think? Amen, bro…I wish you the best!!!

    • stealthattack

      Sounds like you have sex with boys since you mention your looks.

  • Justin L.

    I’ve been dating a Swedish woman that I met a few months ago, and I’ll never go back to American Women again. In fact, she flew me to Sweden for the Holidays. I’ve spend the last two weeks completely blown away by how gorgeous and educated these women are.. funny thing is Sweden is so modest that Swedish men don’t have the guts to cold approach a woman and ask her on a date, especially in the day time. Let me tell you about Swedish fashion … skin tight pants tucked into a pair of boots on 99% of the women I see and they are mostly tall, slender, and beautiful. Some have literally taken my breath away! I’ve been trying to describe to my girlfriend why I’ve rejected American women … this article was the answer. She heard me absolutely roaring in the next room and wondered what was going on. I’ve been a witness or experienced everything in this article (a girl came to my house in grungy sweats). Kudo’s to you for writing this, and I won’t bother justifying it to any visiting women. I’ve dated some hot and intelligent U.S. girls. They can keep their bullshit, I’m sticking to what’s offered overseas.


    Don’t forget COLOMBIA! I have family there and everytime I go I always meet pretty,smart,humble,family oriented girls who love sex and will treat you like a king. Of course in Bogota you will find some American wannabe type girls and gold diggers but for the most part girls in Bogota and the rest of Colombia are still old school and want a macho nice guy in their life. You don’t have to be alpha male either just don’t ever let girls walk all over you and you’ll be fine.

    P.S. becareful with Medellin woman they are a bit on the fake side and have fake boobs and lots of surgery and will ask for you to pay for that!

    • Craig Himself

      Well, which cities have you visited in Colombia? Spill them beans, baby!

    • Craig Himself

      Also, I’d appreciate your comments on the following:

      I’ve been to Peru, for a week, and that’s all the South America I know. But still, that was all I needed to form a prejudice that South Americans (with the possible exceptions of Chileans and wealthier/classier Brazillians) are all about party-party-party, woo-woo-woo, and nobody’s serious about following directions, keeping promises, etc.

      So. Am I full of shit? I actually hope that I am, but I need to understand why.

      • Charlie Bushmeister

        No, you’re right, the South Americans are very flaky and many are quite lame. Argentinos don’t really party, neither do Uraguayos. Colombians party their asses off, as do the Brazilians. The biggest problem with Latinas is trying to get them to actually show up for Date 1.

        • Craig Himself

          So let me guess:

          A (white western detail-oriented) fellow can be happy with a Latina from/in a Party Country, but he has to be at samauri-esque peace with making all the decisions, planning all the plans, and being responsible for everything in the relationship, forever.

          Sorta sorta? How am I doing?

  • http://Don't Alexandra

    Kiki, you should not be so snobbish about an accident of birth and genetics(blonde hair).

    • Kiki

      Alexandra, How am I being snobbish?! I simply said in a previous statement not all blondes are dumb as I have blonde hair and so does half my family and none of us are dumb. I stated that those that had been shown as examples for ‘stupid’ were blonde that half didn’t have natural blonde hair. So I simply asked that the blonde hair color not be considered an issue their lack of intelligence but instead it be an issue of poorly educated as America is.

      So please explain to me how I was being snobbish about hair color which isn’t an “accident” of genetics – it’s simply that – genetics where there is no accident. It happens for a reason due to the genetic make up of our parents. Both of my parents had blonde hair.

      Cheers, Kiki

  • Kiki

    Hahaha.. I still read this article from time to time and all the new comments added. I can’t help but laugh! I’ve shared it with more and more people every time in which they share it with friends who couldn’t agree more.

    I’m so glad I managed to be an American born girl with mixed European blood (half-Scottish half-Rusyn) that didn’t turn into one of these kinds of American girls. Western men and women kind of suck though. Yes, there are exceptions but still…

    Keep it up as always. I know I’ll find my way back in a month or so for a good laugh all over again. 😀

  • Andy

    “Ever listened to a couple of 18 year old American girls talk to each other?”

    Geez. Ever listen to a couple of 20,30,40 or 50-something American women talk to each other? They are annoying cretins.

  • Kirk Royale

    I started reading your website when a friend of mine, who is an avid reader got tired of hearing about my constant affirmations about me venturing overseas. I wanted you guys to know you have been a great motivation. I am a relatively young man (29) and disabled Veteran with a pension that is about $1200 a month. I have horrible pains in my knees and some major wrist issues from injuries I sustained in the military. You can’t tell from looking at me. My friends could tell because after I got hurt I went from 155lbs to 280lbs. I am back down to 200lbs and working really hard. However, it is hard to find a woman on a disabled vet’s benefits. They only care about money (especially in the DC area) and I could leech off the government and get a high paying job, but why would I want a woman that only wanted me after I was making 6 figures? I am a very intelligent man, I even know my fair share of Russian and French and used my GI Bill to finish my degree. I graduate next semester. But I have been so disgusted by the women in America that I cannot even muster the enthusiasm to try with them anymore. Your website is so accurate it is scarey. I have shown it to everyone I know, my father and anyone else that has a spare minute. Everyone agrees with you. I have talked to women for 10 minutes and been able to tell them they owned a coach bag and they acted like I was psychic for knowing. I haven’t had television for 4 years and these American Women don’t read. You have given me hope that there are lands out there that are worth living for and I might even ex-pat, somewhere it won’t be strange I know 3 languages.

    Thanks for all your work and for helping me carry on.

    P.S. Anytime you need a wingman, I have my passport ready. Are there even grenades to jump on over there?

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      Great, dude, glad to hear we’ve been helpful. And yes, there is the occasional grenade. That’s what Raul is for.

      • Kirk Royale


        I also took up farming this year and I have to admit that I kind of became a little of a country boy. Will the wranglers, cowboy hat and boots go over fine? I know in America the women love the dirt and ruggedness. Will the women over there just see me as silly? I can’t help it, I love the farm life. I don’t have many other clothes since I lost all that weight. What most people don’t understand is you SHOULD be an intelligent educated business man to make good money in farming these days as well. Maybe I need new clothes? With help from a Fairy Wingman?

  • Andy

    I’ve been back in the USA for a week after 2 1/2 weeks vacation abroad and I forgot how generally fat, ugly, stupid, bitchy and lazy American Women are. It seems to get worse after every trip abroad that I take and the realization is quite apalling. There are high quality American women out there but they are extremely hard to find and/or are already taken. I’m not getting any younger and it’s not fair to me to waste my dating efforts while stateside in the slim chances of finding a needle in a haystack. Folks, there is another world out there that is very different from the one many of us have experienced in our respective cities, hometowns, universities, etc. Travel abroad!

  • steven

    I agree a 100%, I actually been to the middle east and oh boy, they are beautiful, thin, smart and nice to you. Very humble and they love their man. And don’t be ignorant, where i went, only 10% of them wore hijab but still had smoking hot bodies. I talked to a few and i actually fell on love with one, and we still talk on the net. I am actually a good looking guy, weight 155, standing 6’1 with 6 abs and ripped basically but for some damn reason, i still get the attitude from over weight American girls who they’re lucky that i walked to them.

    • Peter

      There’s kind of a weird and almost inverse relationship there, Steven. At least from my experiences, a lot of the really cute girls I dated were awesome to me…and yet there were always all these chicks a few rungs down from them who were WAY more bitchy to me. Like, WAY more.

      So, I kind of see where you’re coming from. I think the carbohydrates affect American girl’s attitudes or something.

      Oh, and, American girls suck.

      • Charlie Bushmeister

        I think there’s a scientific reason why uglier girls are bitchier. It’s called: I don’t give a shit. Who cares what ugly fat girls think about you?

  • Princess

    Im an attractive American female and I think you have a point.I have lived in both Europe and South America and have appreciated the lessons I have learned. American women in alot of ways have been spoiled and not necessarily in ways that are to our best interest.Yes the overly casual dressing affliction I too once had. But started dating a man from a Latin country who hated it and made me (in a nice way) stop wearing my favorite sneakers telling me ” babe, casual shoes are for casual clothing, sneakers are for working out”, he told me in a way that wasn’t demeaning and since he actually loved when I wore dresses, I made the decision to dress more feminine, I mean who doesn’t want their man happy? That relationship was years ago but still to this day I appreciate a nice dress and heels, I love to cook and make my guy feel relaxed and cared for. I find that when I look/smell nice, he’s well fed and relaxed from great sex, I feel more “ladylike” because he in turn takes care of me. I think relationships are a trade-off and since in America, we’ve polluted them with too much “women’s lib” we are just confused Men and Women in America.
    Also as far as sex, I have some American girlfriends that are a bit out of touch when it comes to it. I have a policy with sex in a monogamous relationship. I never say no. Now, every occurence wont be xxx worthy or last 3 hrs, but my guy will be taken care of. I understand a man’s need to sometimes “recharge” himself with sex and feeling rejection when he may not be in a good space anyway is no good for either party.
    I also dont think women (or men) should let their bodies go. I think we should take care of ourselves and our families. I enjoy cooking for my man as much as I enjoy sex with him. Both imperative to his overall health which in turn is beneficial to mine. A happy home is always a plus.

    Now to be fair I haven’t been too happy with you American Men either unless they have traveled extensively and have gotten rid of their “relationship afflictions”, especially “going dutch”. A very ridiculously unattractive habit that I find more and more in the US.

    I also wanted to comment on another part of your post where you said:
    American guys in general treat women very well because we our spirits have been so thoroughly so crushed by our horrible women. And the shit that we let them say to us in incredible.

    I must reiterate that us American women who have lived abroad also echo your sentiments with American men. I know there are some great ones, but I also feel that alot of American men are “bitch-made” meaning they can be very insecure and “wimpy”. I dont condone violence but I believe that men have to stand up for themselves and lead their homes, it’s been one thing that I haven’t liked about American men.
    Another thing is that most American men lack finesse in romantic situations. Yes making out is fun and can get better, but every kiss doesnt have to mean “one-night stand” sometimes we just wanna make out. In other countries that is understood more. Or maybe the fact that the unmarried men usually live with their parents is a factor, but either way, they don’t rush. Foreign men at least the ones Ive met, have been more patient. I love sex just like anyone else but I’m selective about who I have it with when Im single. Some guys are just good for a kiss.

    All in all, I have dated great guys but the best have been foreigners. ! feel we understand each other more. With that said I have decided to move out of the country permanently next year 2012. The funny thing is that when I do meet American men that I really like, they are in other countries living, so maybe I will find the American man of my dreams while traveling. Either way, I still have love for you guys, I’m not offended by the truth but trust when I say, you men are not the only ones suffering. Cheers!

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      Brava for an excellent and right-on comment, Princess. Are you single?

      • Michael

        Charley I would agree except for her choice of a screen name “Princess” Also I hate when USA women brag about how foreign men are better this and that… The reason Foreign men are better at this and that is because the women in the USA pretty much ruined most of the men here with the mixed signals of wanting to be treated like a lady yet but acts like a man…

  • Momma

    Hey Boris:

    Thanks for the response.

    Just FYI, the site comes across as ‘bang-bang’. I would expect it’s an age thing. I’m not your audience (this is what happens when your SEO shows up on broader topics such as gold and silver investing). My point was the stories here are all about a life lived in one lane, seemingly ignoring the journey and value of other paths.

    Also, I wondered if you ever combined some type of philanthropic work with your travels?


    • Boris Smirnoff

      Sorry but you are failing to comprehend the message in that case.

      Our mantra is as follows:

      1) Don’t waste your life working toward making somebody else rich.

      2) Don’t settle for low quality western women.

      3) Living abroad in a real paradise of your choosing is cheaper and easier than you think.

      Covering a wide variety of topics and having them a appear in search results is quite intentional and desirable.

      We most certainly appreciate the journey and believe that’s quite clear in our writing overall. Our lives are anything but “one lane”. We think the typical western lifestyle is for suckers and we stand by it.

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      And yes, we have been discussing some longer term ideas for getting involved in microfinance and trying to give back a little.

  • Momma

    I find your website fascinating and have been reading off and on all afternoon (after finding you while researching views on gold).

    I have brothers your age and am almost 40 myself. I find it difficult to accept your views as expert since they don’t seem to based on long term relationships or being part of a family and are all about getting laid as much as possible, preferably with the help of excess alcohol consumption. It will be interesting to see how you look back on your writing and escapades once you are my age and have experienced other ways of living a life.

    My (European) husband and I have a daughter. We have never ever called her princess because I have seen what those girls grow up to be: Bridezillas.

    Unfortunately, the problem is not confined to one gender. Too many guys think the Situation is a man (he isn’t). I avoided American men like the plague myself…in the early 90s.

    Nor is what you describe confined to one culture. These women (and men) are everywhere. The mass consumerism culture has produced them in droves.


    • Boris Smirnoff

      Hi Momma,

      Thanks for your feedback, however, I think you misunderstand us on a number of points.

      1.) I have been in a number of multi-year relationships, some of them very nice and fulfilling and others not. I actually prefer having just one girlfriend (although Charlie often times doesn’t) but sometimes that’s hard to find – I don’t like being celibate in the mean time. We don’t advocate banging as many chicks as possible just for the sake of it, we like to find quality girls we connect with – that’s the goal whether it lasts a night, a year or maybe some day a lifetime.

      2.) We agree with you wholeheartedly on many American men, especially those Jersey shore douchebags – those guys should be shot and are a disgrace to humanity. See where I trashed them in this article.

      3.) Just because we don’t have plans or desires to get married and/or have children does not mean we are not mature and don’t have valid life experiences. Our writing may be crude and crass at times but the aim is to be entertaining. We have found that our foul-mouthed rants are some of the highest traffic draws on the site.

      4.) “The mass consumerism culture has produced them in droves.” You are spot on with this… this is why we don’t like America or “The West” in general.

  • Trendmillionaire

    American women are fat, lazy, entitled, bossy, airheaded, stank ass hoes. Your culture is disgusting in the USA.

    A bunch of lazy arrogant dumb fat fucks that are about to get a savage wakeup call as their banking system is about to empty their pockets while they are watching Snookie eat a donut on tv.

    What a pathetic country. you deserve what you have coming.

    • Charlie Bushmeister

      A little harsh, dude, but I can’t really disagree.

      • Boris Smirnoff

        People voted this for themselves over and over again.

  • Hosswire

    Amen, brothers! I’m close to 40, unmarried, and more grateful for it every time I see the castrated hell my friends married to AWs live in.

    I just wanted to add one thing. Because the USA is still an immigration magnet, we don’t need to leave home to avoid the AWs. There are plenty of foreign-born girls here who haven’t been brainwashed into thinking they should treat men like shit. My current gf is 1/2 Asian & 1/2 Latina and has only been in the US since she was 12. She’s awesomely hot & combines a great, non-American attitude with perfect English & familiarity w/US culture. (the one drawback w/foreign girls for me is that communication subtleties like humor & references get lost when there is a language barrier.)

    She’s a keeper, and I didn’t have to deal with visa issues to find her.

    Keep up the good work!

  • Tyler

    I’ve been watching this site for a while. And I’m also a “Mormon” fan because I’m LDS too and live in Utah. I’m 26 and single, and getting tired of how my church constantly expects me to get married and have as many as children as possible, even though my salary will not require that. I’ve had people ask me constantly why I won’t go on the prowl and find a good woman. I easily slip them some answers that I got from anti-marriage sites, but it doesn’t do the trick, as they have been brainwashed into believing that marriage is “the best thing that can ever happen to you in your life.” They’ve even been known to quote the Bible at me.
    “It’s not good for man to be alone.”
    My reply is, “How the hell can I be alone when I share an apartment with family members and get to hang out with them? The alone-time is something that I actually appreciate at the end of the day.”
    This makes them shut up and change the subject. If not, then I throw the Bible right back at them with THIS quote. “All men are that they might have JOY.” So I’m single, happy, and don’t I deserve to be happy? Especially when traveling to other countries outside of the U.S.

    Then comes the INSULTING remark.
    “You must be gay.”

    I’ve learned to ignore that up until recently, when I snapped back at the idiot that uttered the remark, “Yes, you’re right, I think I am GAY. If being single and able to spend your own money from your paycheck any way you want and do anything you feel like doing on a whim is GAY, then I truly am. I must be GAY if I can save all my extra money for a vacation, not having to worry about obligations to wives and kids, pursue my own dreams, and avoid the 70 percent divorce rate by staying single and having my own choices and options about any women I feel like dating, then I’m PROUDLY gay. And GAY in the old-fashioned term used to mean HAPPY, so I’m HAPPY about what I do.”
    I have plenty of free time in my life to relax, especially after work, without having to please an American woman and her senseless demands.

    Thank you, guys, for putting up this site and giving out good ideas for traveling and living the life. Many men across the country will be indebted to you, and remember that the women criticizing you on here are jealous because they see their future “investments” slipping away.

    • Charlie

      You’re welcome! We’re very glad that our advice is appealing to such a diverse group of single dudes. Read on!

    • Boris

      Hi Tyler,

      You’re on the right track. Be your own man, don’t let anyone tell you what to do. If your friends won’t accept you find new friends that will. You can consider us your friends from afar.

  • Nikki

    I just stumbled upon this site. I do not think feminism is necessarily a bad thing. Its original intention was to give women more opportunity outside the home, and for that I am thankful for, otherwise I wouldn’t be where I’m at today. But it became bad when some woman decided that “opportunity” meant “exploitation” inside and outside the home/relationship by acting like a man. This is wrong. Women are supposed to be naturally feminine at their core just how men are supposed to be naturally masculine at their core, otherwise they’d never truly be free in their expression. I know this because I’ve always felt more comfortable in my skin when traveling overseas or when talking to my Asian girlfriends or foreigners. Unfortunately, feminist pedagogy has been going on here for over 40 years, and what is the result?…Men and women in the US are more confused than ever.

    That is why I’ve primarily gone out with Asian men. Not only do we share cultural affinity (I’m Asian too), but most I know are chivalrous, intelligent, protective, and strong-willed. And for these same reasons I also find myself strongly attracted to Latino and Eastern European men. I know these groups of men are also known to be a bit more chauvinist and perhaps even more demanding of women, but that is always a consequence of having grown up in a traditional family/society. But I’d rather deal with that than someone who acts like a rag I can wipe my feet on! Don’t get me wrong, I also know some quality American guys, but they are usually much older or taken.

    Sorry if this is so long. Keep up the good posts Charlie :)

    • Charlie

      Thanks for the comment, I agree 100%.

    • Boris

      True dat!

  • Panic

    According to the CDC, heart disease is the number one killer of American women. We told you to lose weight, and yet you still call us misogynists for it.

    Remember ladies, when your ticker gives out prematurely, you can’t blame it on the patriarchy.

    You simply can’t rationalize atherosclerosis away.

    • Joe


  • Paul

    I’m from England and our women are copying American women at alarming rates, with swearing at men, getting drunk all the time then you have the ridiculous money obsession. Like really, asking a guy (who you barely know) about his money and possessions is taking it to far…….I personally thought it was a joke but not after a few times.

    A female Polish co-worker came over here a year ago and finds it disgusting how women here (not all) act towards men and even women.

  • BigPoppa

    BB King having his say on the subject….Enjoy….​=7UrDqfoZph4

  • Popod

    I think we’ve lost the ability to see each other as equal opposites that compliment each other in a relationship. When my super smart sharp girl friend shows her fem side, it’s a huge turn on. When I can help her or her family with something – repairs or navigating paperwork etc. She loves it. In the US relationships are warfare. If I help u, I’m weak. If she helps me she’s being dominant. Helping each other is what we were built to do. The message in our culture and our media has totally killed the concept of men and women as partners. And I have to be honest non western born women should be reaping the rewards. There is an over supply of well educated, wealthy, balanced guys who can’t stand working with this type of Amer women – never mind living with them and raising a family. Those Amer women can definitely find a gfrnd and adopt or raise dogs or some other horsesh-t. But don’t hate us for just wanting to have a normal successful life and family.

    • Kiki

      Couldn’t have said it better!! Beautifully said.. and congrats on the super smart sharp girlfriend! Where is she from?

  • sosua brian

    Fellas, I have lived in the Dominican Republic for five years and am 100% spoiled. We have Chicas Beaches Discos and all the cold Presidente beer you can drink. Its the perfect place to visit. Just one problem I must point out. Hot girls will be knocking at your door 24 hours a day. What a shame! The women here Rock! This place loves to party!

  • Feminism Chick

    Wow. Scum like you are the reason the government should be censoring the internet!

    • Jon

      It’s bitches like you who are turning America into a police state. The government is not our goddamn parent! That’s really unpatriotic of you to want the internet censored!

      • Boris

        Good call!

    • Jon

      It’s so cliche for a feminist to use shaming language… I thought feminism would have some intellectual components, but I guess I’m wrong.

      • Kiki

        I completely agree with you! I’m foul-mouthed at times, I won’t lie! But I try my hardest to be a lady. Intellectualism comes to those who truly know what real feminism is.

        Real feminism should be about embracing the God-given birth rights of being a woman, which can be a powerful birth right, as well as knowing it’s okay to do so while still resembling a woman, not the ape man’s lost cousin. I have no problems holding positions of responsibility or power and doing it in style while wearing heels.. and I still get to shave! That’s being proud of your gender…embracing it.. not trying to look like the male gender.

        • Charlie

          Where have you been lately?

          • Kiki

            Here as always! Just reading though. 😉 Still the American born Eastern European living in Belgrade, Serbia. I see that things still haven’t changed here. AW are bitching about what you say… Almost men have agreed… And the foreign women laughing about it all.

            I love you guys, though! Such entertainment!! Please don’t ever stop! (I bet you hear that a lot. 😉 )

  • eastern europe girl

    well guys ! come over to europe :) we will appreciate all u do for us and will give some goood love :) thanks american girls – we need your man :****

    • Charlie


    • Boris

      Yes please do elaborate… I’m already here by the way. :)

  • An American Woman

    If that is what dating is like in 2011 then I am glad I am old.
    Charlie, good luck to you…I hope you find what you desire most. Aurevoir bonne chance

  • An American Woman

    “Looking for quality women in America is the definition of scrounging. Once you go abroad it’s obvious.”

    aaaaaw Charlie I thought you had moved past the degredation of American Women, (shakes her head sadly).

  • Kate

    The highest “quality” American men (not fat, not a loser, not poor, not ugly, not a whiner) has no problem finding beautiful, successful, intelligent American women. It’s the lower-quality men (i.e. y’all) who feel entitled to everything they can’t offer a partner who end up whining on the internet and scrounging for someone in the 3rd world.

    • Charlie

      Looking for quality women in America is the definition of scrounging. Once you go abroad it’s obvious.

    • Boris

      We can get them, we just don’t want them because they are too stupid, boring and can’t compare to the looks of their counterparts in other countries. That’s pretty clear from the article but I can see you only read at something like a 5th grade level so we’ll forgive you.

    • Lincoln Adams

      And here comes another fat, ugly Ameri-ho with her shaming language!

      American women, they simply are incapable of smelling their own shit.

      • Boris


    • Princess

      Yeah Kate, Sorry love but alot of women in 3rd world countries are beautiful inside and out, need less and do more, please dont take the article personal if it’s truly not you. The fact that you’re responding in such a distasteful way makes you look really bad, and bitter/lonely which is worst of ALL!!!!!lol! Relax or shit, get a fine 3rd world man of your own. A really good friend of mine made a pact with me years ago while we were single. We said if we didn;t meet anyone awesome by 35 we would import someone! Try sweetie, you may like the taste of the 3rd

  • Kiki

    OMG – I’m a woman and I will so agree with this post!

    I’m American born – 3 gen Slav on my dad’s side, mom’s side is Scottish and be in the US since the Rev. War. I live in Serbia now and the differences are amazing. I won’t lie and say American men are oh so great. My American men relationships have been told shit. They’ve had good and bad, but I can honestly say it wasn’t all his fault. I’ve had exes beat me, cheat on me, and so on. I’m not perfect, but I’m not the worst either. I’m decent looking, but have a brain which is what I care about more. The thing is though.. American mentality in general is a shame and quite disgusting. Men and women in the US are just falling far from the definition of humanity. But it isn’t just a man’s fault or a woman’s fault.. it is the society’s fault. The shit that is pushed in the media and thru revolting TV shows, avoiding the main issues in the country, is the problem. I’m glad to see some men stand up for their opinions. And while most of the American men I know are assholes, I know that isn’t the case for all of them. They are getting harder to find and it is because women treat them like this. But do remember guys, a fair share of us are fucked over royally by American men. 😉

    Keep up the posts! Loving this!

    • Lincoln Adams


      Marry me? 😀

      I agree to a certain extent, while society has a lot to do with it, ultimately we created this society. By tolerating the social norms as they are, we are letting the moral decay rot our brains without making enough of a concerted effort to push back against this tide.

      I’m trying though, as much as I hate most American women and rail against them, I give every girl I meet in real life the benefit of the doubt, till they prove me otherwise. I still try to be a nice guy despite the fact that it turns women and even repulses them, simply because I’m not going to allow their stupidity to change who I am.

      • Kiki

        Hehehe.. flattered hun, but I have to decline. My Serbian boyfriend might miss me. 😉

        And that’s awesome that you’re still optimistic about AW. I am like that with most people I meet in general. Some say I’m too nice or too giving or too modest.. but it’s just me. Oh well. Can’t help that. Definitely don’t change and don’t let the girls change you! The strong will survive through all the bullshit in today’s society.

    • Craig Himself

      I’ll tell you this. In Thailand, early 2001, I briefly met a pair of girls who volunteered at the Bangkok International Youth Hostel. They put together the events and activities, etc.

      It had been YEARS since I had just shared a ROOM with women that simply made me happy, just because they existed. I didn’t need to get sex, get attention, or get anything. I was happy being in the same room. Sweet and enchanting.

      Until right then, I had no idea.

  • Lincoln Adams

    Brilliant article!

    I’m a travel blogger myself, although I haven’t traveled abroad as of yet. I am planning to within the year though, and since this will be my first time outside the U.S. by myself, I’m wondering if you can suggest what country would be the most friendly to visit for those who are just starting to get their feet wet in international travel? I would love to experience what it’s like to befriend foreign women on their domain, but I’ve been thinking of traveling first to the UK simply because the language is the same and I wouldn’t feel so lost. Even though it IS still western culture and from what I hear the British girls are almost as bad as American women are. :-X

  • An American Woman

    “You don’t respect me.”
    (Only when you refer to me as a sow or was it cow in public venues whilst making oink oink noises.)

    “You embarrass me in public.”
    (You mean because you farted at the table with a raised leg and it was unexpectadly liquidy and you yelled and pointed hey look at that stain, it looks like Jesus?)

    “Why can’t you get along with my mother?”
    (I adore your Mother, plus I like bumming a few reds from her when we visit.)

    “How come you’d rather hang out with your friends than stay at home with me and watch The Hills?”
    (I’d never say that, matter of fact I might even pay you to go hang out with your friends)

    “I have a headache.”
    (Then throw me an aspirin and remind me that if I don’t you’ll invite MY Mum over)

    “Why do you like stupid football?”
    (I’ll invite your friends over to watch it so I don’t have to)

    “No you can’t spend the money you earned on a new HDTV, I’m going to spend your money on some clothes that I’m too fat to wear 85% of the time.”
    (You can keep your money and spend in on whatever you like, as long as you don’t ask me not to spend mine at Donut World so I can openely gawk at the hot 27 year old with that funky paper hat from over my fat free digusting tasting soy drenched latte)

    OMG I don’t think I am American, tsk tsk shame on me!

  • An American Woman

    Ah ha hahahahahahaha my apologies dear Boris, a gramatical error you say? (Silently I am smashing my head against the wall, I knew I’d do that, ahhh Karma)

    Well thanks Charlie, just tell me you aren’t British or all my dreams and pre-conceived notions of a country full of dream men will be squashed forever. On the other hand perhaps they wouldn’t be, if I were to re-read your article when pissed as they say.

    Boris can be whatever it is he thinks he is.

    Now would either of you like to model this really nice pair of Mens Nike short shorts I have from 1986, the image of “traveling” behind flaps sagging below the short line makes me wish I wasn’t American, oh the date potential.

    All kidding aside this guy I really like:

    April 18, 2011 at 09:41 · Reply
    I think I may be one of the lucky few. I am an Aussie that was working in London about 10 years ago. During my time there I met an American girl who was on vacation in the U.K, we stayed in touch by writing letters, a few months later I went to visit her (in New Orleans of all places!!). She was gorgeous, intelligent and kind. Introduced me to her family and showed me all around her home town and I had the best time (and we f*cked each others brains out!). After a few weeks I had to return to London to resume my job but she was the only experience I have had of American women and it was most definitely a good one. There are always exceptions to the rule…

    • Boris

      What kind of rambling incoherent nonsense was that?

      • Charlie

        I’m not sure but I think she’s a fan!

        I could model those short shorts for you, no problem.

      • Salamander

        Bwahahahaha! Fuck you guys are funny! I wish I were in SoBe and go drinking with you.

  • An American Woman

    Dear Boris,

    When you are able to form atriculate sentences based on coherent thoughts on a consistent basis, then will gain credibility.


    a. Want a woman who is your yes woman, yes I love football
    b. Want a woman who loves sex as much as you and agrees to all your kinky hidden fetishes with an eagerness only akin to a starving third world inhabitant being offered a five course meal for free.
    c. You want a woman not too fat and not too slim while you feel free to sport your “cute” side love handles (which really are not so cute and neither is bouncing a jello shot off your thigh flab, but what do I know).
    d. You want to always be right, put forth zero to less effort and be coddled like your Mum used to do for you (your Mum should have clocked you upside the head).
    e. You want respect but are not willing to exhibit it.

    and on and on and on I could go.

    My advice:

    Don’t date American women, stop talking about them because it makes you sound like a little boy who didn’t get his way. Oh mommy those american girls are…. The way you praddle on about American women makes me think you were REJECTED and it stung and you are now harboring resentment. Don’t lash out, get over it, make peace with it and move on.

    • Charlie

      Hi, and welcome to the blog! I’m the author of this particular article, so please insult me, not Boris!

    • Boris

      Kind of funny that you very first sentence criticizing my writing ability contains a grammatical error and a spelling mistake. “When you are able to form atriculate sentences based on coherent thoughts on a consistent basis, then will gain credibility.” LOL.

      It seems your reading comprehension is much worse than my writing ability (or actually Charlies in this case, I didn’t even write this article). Pretty much everything you said is dead wrong and was never expressed or implied in any of our articles. You are just another angry fat western chick that cant get a date because you are not at all attractive physically or emotionally.

      We have been following the advice “Don’t date American women” for years, we’re now encouraging other men to do the same. Thanks for proving our point with your obnoxious comment. Take a hike, or maybe a walk on the treadmill.

      • Charlie

        I quite enjoyed her comment, actually. No reason to call her fat!

        • Boris

          I’m just calling it as I see it.

      • Kate

        you sound fat

        • Charlie

          I’m 6′, 160.

  • Valentina

    Great post! This book should be recommended to all American Ladies…maybe I should post it on my Facebook!

    Thanks Winston :)

  • Winston

    Btw, Boris, are you Russian living in America?

    If so, you will love what these foreign immigrants said about America, which is never mentioned in the US media. I’ve collected all their quotes on this page:

    I wonder why people in other countries still think that America is some paradise where women are friendly and people are happy and open? That’s not true at all. Why hasn’t the truth gotten around to the mass public overseas, even by word of mouth?

    • Boris

      Hi Winston,

      No. I am a citizen of planet earth living in various places that suit me when they suit me. I move frequently. Thanks for the input and the link, I’m sure this is going to be good.

  • Winston

    Hi Boris,

    This is Winston of HappierAbroad. Yeah I’d love to do a link exchange with you. You ought to come to my forum. There are lots of intellectual freethinking guys that tell the truth about American women and foreign women there. There is no political correctness on my forum. Truth is our God.

    I will post some of your links in my forum by the way, so the guys can know about your site.


    • Boris

      That’s great, thanks. As long as its OK with Charlie and Raul we will link exchange with you no problem.

  • Steve

    Hi everyone. I just wanted to take a moment to introduce you all to our like minded movement at

    See our research section that quotes American leading experts that are now stating that most American woman are narcissistic and how feminism and American woman are the cause of our world leading divorce rate and the breakdown of the American family unit. American woman are destroying America and the proof from statements such as Dr Laura Schlessinger and Jean twenge are proving our points.

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    • Boris

      Hi Steve,

      Sounds like an interesting site, I’m going to check it out immediately. Perhaps we can do a link exchange?

  • Beth

    “Is Hungary a country?” lol

    Funny how you chose blondes to show how stupid AW are. I do agree with some of what you said but at the same time I thank everything for finding my husband he’s not with me for only sex and he’s not a gold digger (I almost only have dated gold diggers) nor is he abusive or follow me around like a puppy. I can’t stand men from other countries, if I can’t understand them it’s not going to work out.

    From what I can see, you want slutty and submissive? That’s what it sounds like when you complain about women wanting marriage before sex (can’t say anything about that I also believe in test driving before I make the commitment and “shacking up” first to see how they truly are). Men here in America aren’t exactly huge catches either from what I’ve seen, they are deadbeats and abusers and I know a lot of women who only have expectations that their boyfriend or husband needs to have a job too and not just live off her salary. I’d say go with the geek chicks or the “goth” chicks if you want someone who isn’t wrapped up in the gold digging lifestyle, not all of us are fat and we can both please a man and keep him around. The Kim Kardashian lookalikes and wannabes sound like the ones you guys are talking about mostly and the white or black trash who lives in the projects and has 5 kids by 5 men and are on welfare. The rest of us are the decent ones, there are more than you guys think there are. Either that or my friends and I are the only ones who aren’t shallow and gold diggers. (I just had a baby 2 months ago, I’m not fat or skinny and I don’t profess to be nor do I walk around in sweat pants and I’m in school studying to go into skin care – I can’t stand a bad complexion in a man or woman) I didn’t insult anyone or disagree with this but I’m defending what I’ve seen you guys insult on here the most with the women who have posted on here.

    • Charlie

      Great comment! I personally don’t like either slutty nor submissive in my long term relationships, more like open and considerate. Sluts are fun on occasion though! I really try to treat women well and only ask that they do the same for me.

      Thanks for reading!

    • Kiki

      They might be ‘blondes’, but they aren’t natural blondes. So, really.. they are just brunettes who want to be blondes. I’m a platinum blonde naturally – I don’t want to be brunette or a ginger. I love my blonde. Everyone tries to be blonde… doesn’t mean they are.

      And a woman who’s polite and feminine doesn’t equate slutty and submissive. And by being polite and feminine doesn’t equate being a weak woman, either. A woman who understands the power she has in heels is a smart woman…

  • Rickster

    Love this article, I started reading through the commentary but then just skipped to the end. I would like to point out that I am LDS (latter-day-saint), and for those of you who don’t know that is the same as Mormon. In our church families are pivotal in our lives and is something that we all aspire to have for spiritual reasons. Recently in a conference talk one of our leaders (Elder Dallin H. Oaks) pointed out how there are several women in the church who are upset with the fact that men don’t ask them out on dates and refuse to court them leaving them alone and single. He read a letter from one woman that expressed this issue but pointed out that it’s shared by a lot of women. With this statement I imagine that about 2 million eyes rolled as well as heads nod in contempt for the accusation that men are not properly courting women or even trying. It seems that even in a culture that encourages strong traditional familial values, the vain and foolish ideas of society still manage to creep in and corrupt something so sacred as to ruin it entirely. LDS women I must admit are an exceptional breed of woman, but are slowing being lulled into the same fancy that many other American women have succumbed to, namely entitlement, greed, antagonism towards men and an overall superficial mind-set that is purely self serving.

    To be honest, while you’re approach may seem rather harsh, it needs to be done, fighting fire with fire because it’s gotten to the point where calm reasonable diplomatic solution may no longer be possible so now we need to speak with a voice of thunder at our outrage in the hopes that someone will finally listen and we can stop the ensuing calamity before it’s too late. Feminism needs to go the way of the dinosaurs and vanish having already left its print. In this day and age, we need to promote humanism, the belief that all people are all created equal in nature and in the eyes of God (though humanists don’t usually believe in God), and accountable one to another just the same regardless of our differences. Feminism is trying to parade itself as the new ‘humanism’ but is really just a vain attempt at trying to continue on their real crusade of promoting women’s rights at the expense of men’s.

    • Charlie

      Wow, our first Mormon fan!

  • Annie

    I just stumbled upon your site and, as an American woman in my early 20’s, it was a very interesting read. I believe that bashing other women is counter-productive, so I don’t make a regular habit of it, but I do feel the need to say that I agree with you. I lived overseas in high school and I get out of the country for at least a few weeks every year. From my experience, I agree that the women here are probably the hardest to date. But I think it’s more than that. I think it’s that the expectations of romantic relationships in the Unites States are way off base. I am constantly in awe of how many people (men and women, but mostly women) do not seem to understand the difference between love and the feeling of not wanting someone to fuck other people. They convince themselves that their intense craving for validation from another person is love, when in reality it’s just a manifestation of low self-esteem. And while they stay in this mindset, they miss out on intellectual opportunities, invigorating experiences, and good, happy relationships. When you talk about these selfish, mean, entitled women, it isn’t sad because what you’re saying is harsh. It’s sad because every single one of those women and every single one of their boyfriends or husbands are incredibly unhappy. Connecting with other people, for a night, for a lifetime or for anything in between, is one of the most wonderful aspects of life and it simply doesn’t happen when you go into a social setting looking for an ego boost. It just seems to me that we in America are the worst at being honest with ourselves and with each other (sometimes good sex is just good sex, and that’s OK.) Of course there are plenty of external reasons, like the media or shitty (sometimes even abusive) past relationships, that have caused so many American women to be this way, which is also very sad. But we all still have control over how we behave in relationships and I think that you’re doing a good thing by pointing all of this out, even if it’s not something that a lot of American women want to hear. I’ve given up trying to knock sense into some of the women around me. Now I’m just going to send them the link to your post. :)

    (Also, I’m a math teacher and it’s not just the women in this country that are stupid…)

    • Boris

      Cheers to you. Can we go on a date? :)

      • Annie

        Hahaha. I don’t see why not. Can we cook to bang? 😉

        • Boris

          I hope so. If you bring the wine I’ll cook. 😉

      •!/profile.php?id=100002046188057 Charlie

        Beat me to it.

        • Boris

          Yea not even close, by almost a full 48 hours!

          •!/profile.php?id=100002046188057 Charlie

            Sorry, I was in SoBe at el Matador’s bachelor party!

  • Chris

    I think I may be one of the lucky few. I am an Aussie that was working in London about 10 years ago. During my time there I met an American girl who was on vacation in the U.K, we stayed in touch by writing letters, a few months later I went to visit her (in New Orleans of all places!!). She was gorgeous, intelligent and kind. Introduced me to her family and showed me all around her home town and I had the best time (and we f*cked each others brains out!). After a few weeks I had to return to London to resume my job but she was the only experience I have had of American women and it was most definitely a good one. There are always exceptions to the rule…

    • An American Woman

      aaaaaaw! Thank you for proving the point many of us would make. New Orleans is a fabulous melting pot of culture and southern men and women tend to be very polite, neighborly and kind of spirit. I am glad you both were able to experience something wonderful.

      “She was gorgeous, intelligent and kind.” followed with (and we f*cked each others brains out!).

      I would so much like to move to the UK……

      But don’t worry Chris I won’t stalk you or wear a poster sign on the Streets of London looking for you, I’m not Glenn Close and I think bunny rabbits are just too cute to boil up! :)

      • Boris

        The point really is that we prefer to go where “gorgeous and intelligent and kind” is the rule rather than the exception. In many of the places we write about “gorgeous and intelligent and kind” and more is the rule while sadly in the US and many other western countries it is the rare exception. To each his own.

  • Norwegian traveller

    Great article guys!

    This is exactly what pisses me off in my own country as well, Norway that is. Our society is now made for women, controlled by women, who only care about themselves and their own interests. I’m one of few guys willing speak out and get points across, but it seems like every time I do, people are just freaking brainwashed by all those stupid feminists. In the Western world, women like to be put in the driver’s seat. They want the same benefits and opportunities that men gets, and that’s a fair deal. But what they don’t want is to meet the same requirements and standards that men do, cause if they do, it’s NOT FAIR. They don’t want to do the military service, but they want scholarships for certain study programs, programs men don’t get anything for attending. Problem is, if you do let them know what you think about things like this, they call you a woman hater etc, etc. I hate my country sometimes.

    I have also realized that there are a lot of great women in other parts of the world. It’s always great to travel and experience women that actually want to dress, behave and talk like a woman. The main problem you face though, is the cultural barrier that from time to time make it difficult to fully understand one another. For me personally it’s not all about trying to get laid or anything, just as much to actually talk to someone and share experiences. Next up on my list is China, which I’m sure will be a lot of fun. After the summer I’ll be travelling for nine months to Latin America. Looking forward to get to know some of the planet’s best looking woman :)

    Keep up the great work guys!

    • Boris

      I remember hearing about this shit during college… something about Norwegian law requiring a certain percentage of women on the board of directors of every company… i almost barfed in my lap.

      • Norwegian traveller

        There are several rules that has do to with a percentage or a number of women in management, politics, study prog. etc, etc. And of course it is always done in the name of “gender equality”. Qualifications and personal qualities aren’t really that important. Being a journalist like I am, you almost feel trapped in these feminists’ view of life. And that’s why we (men) need to travel abroad, so that we can get some new input and perspective of what it means being a man and a woman.

  • Mrs Abroad

    Kudos. While the article is somewhat “whiny” and more of a bash about us American girls it isn’t entirely wrong. The examples you’ve shown are of the extreme, and I can say I know some awesome American girls and some awful American girls. I’ve traveled all over Europe, lived in Asia, and now live in Africa. There are these girls all over the world. Each countries women have their highs and lows. I can stereotype and say Europeans are snotty, Asians just want your money, and Africans are rude. But when you stereotype you miss out on the good things and the good people pass you by. Overall, I think all of you American guys and girls should get out of America and travel, after all, I didn’t marry an American :)

    • Boris

      Mrs Abroad, the problem is in America it’s the rule and many countries abroad it’s the exception. I am traveling Asia now and I can tell you “Asians just want your money” is definitely not the case in China. There are very wealthy Chinese girls that are thrilled to date western men and want nothing more than quality companionship. They even pay sometimes. This is the problem with America.

  • Samia D

    I’m sorry, I’m going to be straight forward but if you’re going to complain about American GIRLS I’m going to complain about American BOYS. First of all, they need to grow some balls. They do not take the initiative and expect girls to wear the pants in the relationship.. sorry, if I wanted to make all the decisions in a relationship I would be a lesbian. Americans guys are generally pussies who conform to the whole social role that says that all they are allowed to enjoy are sports and bitches making them sandwiches or else they must be gay. They sit on their asses all day and watch sports on TV, play in ‘Fantasy Leagues’ or on their Xboxes while guys in every other country actually get out and PLAY real sports daily. And you’re calling the girls fat? It goes both ways honey. When I travel, the American boys are the assholes who have little to no sense of how to act in public. Dating foreign guys has opened my eyes to the dumb stuff I shouldn’t have put up with before.. They are clean, thoughtful and very fashionable. So Suck It you hateful bastards 😛 Not really, hahah you’re entitled to your opinion as much as I am to mine and I guess we can agree that foreign dating is for us. I’ll stick with my lovely Moroccan break-dancing, engineer boyfriend and you can go find your little Russian supermodel ;-D Cheers dears!

    •!/profile.php?id=100002046188057 Charlie

      I couldn’t agree with you more, most American guys are pretty lame. They don’t dress well, they’re out of shape, they don’t dance, they aren’t cultured. That’s why I stand out from the crowd. But they are pretty nice, as far as men worldwide go.

      • Michal

        Yeah, I think this is true, let’s just agree that people in America are generally pretty lame. At least for a relationship. I’m a European living in the USA and I’m thanking God every day for my cute, feminine, slim, educated, caring, loving Romanian-born girlfriend. Also I agree that while US boys are lame, they are generally quite nice compared to the lame, fat, entitled, man-eating bitches that many women out here are…

      • Michal

        Well, maybe that was too harsh, there are some pretty nice, intelligent and attractive women out here. But they are very rare and usually picked out quickly. I have dating experience both here and in my eastern European homeland and there’s no comparison in terms of quality. Especially online dating in America is atrocious. But I think the American men themselves are in a great part responsible for the sad state of US female population

        • Kiki

          Where are you from in Eastern Europe? And Romania is nice! Was in Timisoara in April! :)) Americans are becoming quite lame – men and women. You’re right on the money with that one. Why are you in the US, though?! I’m a American born Lemko-Rusyn but live in Serbia now with my Serbian boyfriend. I got tired of the AM. hehehe

          • Michal

            Hi Kiki, I’m Slovakian, living in US for about 8 years now. Why am I here – I like it here (except the women). Have a great career with decent money, good life, always sunny weather here in the Southwest and beautiful nature. America is great country and gives the people who live here many options. The problem is that most people choose the easy way out – eating McDonalds and watching stupid reality show all day long. But such is the nature of humanity, sadly. If you are smart you can get a lot out of life here.
            But still, I don’t think I’ll stay here forever. Although my job is quite laid back it still is a corporate prison with limited (although somewhat generous for US standards) vacation time and ideally I’d like to find a way out, be time and location independent…

  • Sarah

    Wow, you really do know how to insult an entire continent of females. Not smooth at all dude. As a world traveler and specialist in cross-cultural communication, I understand your despair when it comes to certain “ugly American” traits. However, I must point out that American girls are not the only group of females who act entitled; they are found all over the world. Also, American men have the same stereotype of being large, obnoxious and un-caring about their appearance so it is rather unfair to limit this to American females. You are not completely off in your assessment, but please remember that there are other sides to the story and not addressing them makes you seem rather ignorant and cruel.

    And just a side note, attacking women for being certain weight makes me think that you are acting rather entitled yourself. It also makes you look extremely materialistic… maybe you are looking for the wrong women hmmm? Superficiality tends to attract it’s match.

  • vin

    I am an American white guy.

    American white girls, in general, repulse me as potential mates –no matter what their physique. I like some white girls as friends, but would NEVER consider any of them as partners. They do nothing but play games and lead guys on, and their egos are massive. Repulsive. Honestly, they’re much like their American white guy counterparts. American white people are just pretty crappy at relationships, I think. Ego has destroyed the concept of the relationship. American ‘individuality’ and ‘individual freedom’ is a guise for ‘huge ego.’ Men and women being together in a monogamous relationship is an idea, not necessarily ‘natural;’ but it generally leads to better overall happiness for the man and woman, as well as the children. That’s a subjective statement.

    I recently found an incredible Chinese girl and she’s perfect. White women (and men): You could learn a lot from other cultures when it comes to having a happy relationship.

  • Lee

    Dear Meg, I can understand your French boyfriend. Maybe he’s good as a lover because he has been treated like a real man by real women in Europe. Be informed that we American men have been raped by the MILLIONS in courts, prisons, and AIDs wards because of the low quality of AW. It’s not easy to keep smiling and keep pleasing a women when she is a bitch, and worthless to boot. They can’t cook, can’t clean the house, can’t relate in a meaningful way with anybody. Also, we more mature men have discovered that over 75% of AW are mentally ill. This puts American men in a bad position. What’s out there is the BOTTOM OF THE BARREL. It goes to reason that a man would give up on taking care of himself, like loding weight, practicing etiquette, wearing nice clothes, etc. Now I’m pro womens’ rights, and I love nice, feminine women. I also have a deep compassion for anyone suffering mental illess. But the fact remains, that the choice here is very poor. I am working on perfecting my Spanish, as I plan on founding a second home in South America. Another thing: The higher up a man is on the social/economic ladder, the better he does. This man doesn’t sit in alone at night. He will always have a beautiful girl on his arm. And he doesn’t need a Masserati or Ferrari to get there. All he needs is SOME money, tall, handsome, and educated. He will be busy. The bottom line is that there is a SEVERE shortage of real men in the world of women. To try and get a good and balanced package is a most prodigious achievement for a woman. Most boyfiends and husbands are genuine compromises. I actually feel very sorry for AW. I just don’t want to deal with them. Lee

  • meg

    I agree with your sentiments but it’s the other way around. American guys are no prize. Fat, out of shape, stupid, and think they are the best guys in the world. News flash. I have a French boyfriend and he’s great. Smart, intelligent, sexy and unbelievable in bed.

    •!/profile.php?id=100002046188057 Charlie

      Well, I do agree with a lot of that. Enjoy your French boyfriend!

  • Lance Nelson

    Boris, It so so refreshing to hear the truth here… and from the sensible Bulgarian lady living in America who totally gets it.

    Great site, keep it up guys.

  • Andy

    Poland. That link you gave me is very interesting. I’ll have to read some more of that later on. Thanks, Boris.

    • Boris

      I haven’t been to Poland but I hear it’s a bit on the snobby side of the spectrum as far as Eastern Europe goes. Something like Czech Republic has become due to DAFF overflow. If you aren’t getting satisfaction in Poland don’t hesitate to make a hop a skip and a jump to Ukraine. That country is 100% guaranteed to satisfy and carries’s seal of approval.

  • Andy

    Not only do American women make terrible wives, girlfriends and mothers but they are toxic as co-workers and suck at managerial jobs. I know because I work with mostly fat, ugly, bitchy walruses that are about 20 years older than I am who act like teenage girls all day long. Our previous boss was a typical AW who had it out for me as do most of the jabba the sluts currently in the department simply because I’m a man and I do my job.

    In fact, in my previous jobs all of my bosses were AW and were terrible to work with. Ironically, the men always complained about them. Even the attractive, skinny ones (which are very few) have no clue whatsoveer and go around acting like pretentious princesses.

    Today at work I was bitched at by one of these Ms. Piggies for no valid reason (naturally) and nearly lost it. I am now on a very short fuse and am now looking to get another job. In the meantime, a trip to Eastern Europe that I’ve been contemplating taking was booked today. It wasn’t out of anger. But if there was any sign or deciding factor then that happened today. American Women suck!

  • El Matador

    A WOMAN wrote essentially that American Women Suck on Huffington Post today:


    • Boris

      Love it, except for that snide little comment that equates “fear and insecurity” with disliking bitches…

      She almost redeems herself with this one though:

      “Because ultimately, marriage is not about getting something — it’s about giving it. Strangely, men understand this more than we do. Probably because for them marriage involves sacrificing their most treasured possession — a free-agent penis — and for us, it’s the culmination of a princess fantasy so universal, it built Disneyland.”

  • El Matador

    A footnote for Valentines Day…..
    A girl at my GFs work was outraged that her boyfriend hung paper hearts all over the ceiling and made dinner in honor of her instead of buying jewelery.
    Do I need to say any more about what’s wrong with these women?

    • Cudaguy


      I’d have poured the dinner in the sink and gone out by myself.

      That would probably be the last dinner I’d ever have to cook for her too.;-)

      Lemme take a wild guess…tatted up and overpierced with an exaggerated view of her own self worth.

      Valentina, 😉

  •!/profile.php?id=100002046188057 Charlie

    Merci, Valentina, for such good advice.

  • Valentina

    As a girl from Bulgaria, I have to say that I find it really sad what AW do to men. I have an American Boyfriend who I love with all my heart and he thinks that I am the most amazing woman in the world. I am not, but I treat him right and it seems to me that in the past he has been taken advantage of, and abused financially way to many times. I respect him and I never disregard his opinion.

    So many girls here in the US do not appreciate their men. Treat them like they are stupid and cant do anything right. The Result: men turn in to zombies…the lights are on but nobody is home…because their wife cut their balls off at the wedding, used him to make her some babies. and took all the money that HE made. I am sorry to be so brutal but I have seen it so many times…and then, 10 years later, the poor man wakes up and says “no more”, leaves the woman and he gets it again because the woman takes all his money at the divorce and feels like that is her money…WTF??? It’s absurd really… there is not much on men’s rights you can read about, is there…?

    Ladies, if you want your man to be happy, make them feel strong, wanted, appreciated and handsome. Treat them with respect. Be kind to them and support them when they are down. They will treat you like a queen. It is really very simple.

  • Cudaguy

    Ali, what a breath of fresh air.

    My advice, for what it’s worth, no tats or excessive piercings.

    Speak correctly, no rap/thug vocabulary.

    Learn a profession but don’t let it rule your life (ie, put off marriage/kids for a career).

    You won’t ever be alone, you’ll have your pick.

    Good luck,


  • Ali

    I’m not an American Woman (I’m from Saskatchewan, Canada), but this article still made me a little ashamed to be a woman. It’s true: there are a lot of women out there who give our gender a bad name. I’d always hoped that those women were the exception and not the rule, but articles like this are starting to make me realize that women who AREN’T selfish, materialistic, and controlling are becoming more and more of a rarity.

    Guys, don’t settle for the type of woman who wants to turn you into a lapdog. There are plenty of us out there who would very much love to meet a strong and confident man who doesn’t follow his woman around like a lost puppy. So keep looking, and try to stay optimistic. We’re not ALL bad, I promise. :)

    • Boris

      No need to feel bad about it. If you’re one of the good ones you should be a really hot commodity right now. They just don’t make many like you, at least in the west. We are fine though, we’re not bitter or anything, we just prefer chicks from other cultures and we know where to find them. We wish America and the west in general would turn around but we’re not holding our breath. Anyway I just can’t stress enough for a girl like you, it should be a blessing not a curse that the rest of the women are so awful. Think about it, there are tons of people out there searching for someone like you. You are in demand, trust me, I speak for men in general. 😉

      • meag

        Boris, you say that such women “should be” a really hot commodity right now. Many of the males that I have had the unfortunate experiences of meeting ONLY want slutty girls that are stupid. They say that they want intelligent women that take care of themselves, but many aren’t willing to put in the effort to catch the better fish. I can’t say that I’ve met a lot of decent women, but I can say that we are out there (not only in other countries). I’m certainly not sticking up for girls like Ashley or Jessica, because their replies offended me by proving everything you said right. I’m not a hardcore feminist Nazi either; I believe that men and women were made to work together for each other, and not one “empower” the other. Women don’t like being told that men are stronger, even when it’s true, and I’ve met a lot of guys that have absolutely NO respect for females (which doesn’t help us want to be feminine btw). I’m still young, I’m eighteen almost nineteen; so maybe my opinion shouldn’t matter as much as the people who have had more experience in all of these areas. Oh, I also don’t think that opinions should be based from sitcoms, or “reality” TV; they are ridiculously stupid and overrated. A lot of times I don’t realize that the little quirky things I do irritate my guy, just like some of the things he does gets under my skin; communication is a huge part of any relationship that I don’t see very often. I’m not saying don’t travel and enjoy life or even look for a partner in another country; go ahead. But, there are still women in the U.S. who aren’t ridiculously dumb, trashy, or nasty. :) So, don’t totally give up hope.

        • Boris

          You don’t sound like the typical American girl (in a good way). Don’t get jaded by the typical stupid American men. If you don’t find somebody to treat you right at home, look abroad. I’m sure you will find someone who appreciates you.

  • Lee

    Yes Mai Ting. Loads of American men are waking up to the feminist BS. We all now know that there are literally millions of foreign women who genuinely want us. I see an ocean of men who will throw in the towel and look offshore. You women will get the men and the AW can have their butt-kissing, subservient male things (whimps) Nothing turns my stomach more than a male meekly following a female around and worshiping her like a little puppy dog. Please bear in mind that I am pro womens’ rights, and I really love real women. But enough is enough! feminism sucks! Notice that I didn’t even bother to capitalize the word feminism even though it is the first word of the sentence. Lee

  • Mai Ting

    Ashley go f– yourself. We NON american girls will get your men, you can keep your cats – you’ll need them you stupid whore.

    • Elmatador


    • http://none roy

      Thank You I too am sick of the AW they all suck !

    • Boris

      I love you. :)

  • Cudaguy

    Paul, I hope you copy and pasted that great article.

    To have typed all that freehand to change the Ashleys mind would have been a waste of your time. 😉

  • http://None Danielle M.

    Unfortunatley noone ever answered my question on that website….but I did some research online, some of these sources seem “authoritative” and trustworthy. I seem to get a mixed bag, most seem to agree with my position on the subject.

    Take care of yourself, and may you always use the Golden Rule in your dealings with women-and, how knows-maybe you will be blessed with an American woman who isn’t the type as protrayed in your article! 😀

  • http://None Danielle M.

    That’s pretty sad if you have to get someone plastered to do what you want in bed….

    • Jaegerbombs!

      I do it all the time. That’s how I roll baby! JAEGERBOMBS!

      • http://None Danielle M.

        That proves all women do not like it. I’ll be careful not to go to the ladies’ room until I am completely done with my meal next time I’m on a date….

  • Jaegerbombs!

    I betcha Danielle would change her mind about blowjobs after 6 or 8 Jaegerbombs! JAEGERBOMBS!

    • Boris

      Dude give it a rest. Danielle is talking about some very serious topics here. I can be real a dick but even I don’t feel right about giving her a hard time. You need this article:

      • Jaegerbombs!


      • http://None Danielle M.

        Thanks for the civility. Well, I’ve read about oral in sex books from the 1970’s onward, and the earliest books don’t mention it as much-leading me to believe it was “taboo” in some marriages or relationships. I’ve gone onto a popular website where you can ask any question about any subject under the sun anonymously and asked the question of when oral became mainstream. Sometimes you get great answers and sometimes not. If I get anything I’ll tell you the results.

        • http://None Danielle M.

          I mean the books were printed from the 1970’s onward.

        • Boris

          Well just because the books you’ve happened to pickup happen to be printed after the 1970 doesn’t really mean anything. It’s a tremendous logical fallacy to jump to the conclusion “I haven’t read about A often in books printed before 1970 so A must not have occurred much before 1970.” Really that’s totally fallacious reasoning. An internet forum where anybody can post anything, especially anonymously, carries no credibility.

          Good luck in your search.

  • http://None Danielle M.

    I forgot to say that since today nobody is expected to assimilate anymore when they move to the U.S. and I refuse to assimilate to anyone else’s culture unless I move out of the U.S. (and I have no desire to do so)I doubt it’s a good idea to marry a foreign born man-I’ve talked to men from England (which is supposed to be the mother of the U.S.) and their culture has evolved to where it is significantly different than the U.S.’s-I feel there are enough challenges between men and women that I can deal without a “multicultural” marriage. And I’m not interested in inter-ethnic dating either-I want my kids to look like my ethnic group (and not have to worry about my kids possibly looking “unusual” in a way that brings the shock-factor) and more importantly, share my culture. America has a bad habit of expecting people to act like the culture that they most resemble and forget about the parts that they don’t resemble. That may be narrow-minded to some of you, but that’s the way I am. Maybe I should have been born back in Grandma’s age-I would have been pretty hip for back then, LOL

    • Charles

      You sound cool, I would love to please you any way I can besides sexually. No oral is fine

  • http://None Danielle M.

    Whoops-power went off-sorry about that. Well, as I was saying, it went from vaginal sex-to oral sex where the man withdrew before coming and didn’t move during the act, then progressed to oral sex where the guy treats the woman like she’s a hooker, moving into her throat and coming in her mouth-and the last is that they expect you to swallow! To me this is repulsive and I felt that way long before I became spiritual. The 1960’s may have been the start of oral sex becoming more acceptable but it wasn’t until the 80’s or afterward that it became mainstream to where “everybody” was expected to do it. (I read books so that’s how I figuered it out-and plenty of ladies were grossed out thatI’ve talked to about it until fairly recntly. And as far as a “test drive” it’s funny how after the sex revolution the divorce rates skyrocketed to where it is now 50% if not worse. And could it be that people get “bored” with sex because it’s no longer special-they’ve done it with so many other partners? I mean, my grandparents were happy together for over 50 years-I could always feel a tranquility in their house everytime I was there-and they only fought once in front of me the whole time they were alive. And during Grandma’s era women were actually DISCOURAGED from enjoying sex with their spouses-they were just supposed to lie there and do nothing-at least I’m not that bad! I admit, I haven’t read the Kama Sutra.I’m not concerned with the religious part-it’s easy for me to find another of my faith-just less easy to find someone who is compatible with me in other areas. Well, I just have longer to wait maybe-but I know I will find someone eventually.

    • Boris

      I totally disagree with almost everything you’re saying. Oral sex has been around for thousands of years at least. Maybe you should try eHarmony.

      • http://None Danielle M.

        Oral sex may have been around for thousands of years in other cultures, in the States it was relatively uncommon until it became more acceptable to “experiment” in the 1960’s, and didn’t become fully mainstream until much later. A man probably would most likely wind up paying a hooker for that act more than his chances of getting it for free with his own wife prior to the 60’s.

        My father was my mother’s first sexual experience, yet during an argument she told me he called her a “c— sucking whore.” They divorced when I was two and to be honest, not many men in my family have been very nice to me-my grandfather and my mother’s brief boyfriend of one year aside-I grew up with mostly negativity surrounding most men in my life. It’s a miracle I didn’t become a lesbian. The one guy that I cared for seemed to give me a way out of the negativity concerning men, but I still “wince” at the thought of being in a marriage unhappy because the man I marry turns into someone else. So maybe now you can understand psychologically where I’m coming from in my unwillingness to do oral.

        I’m curious-how many men would compromise-by doing it through a thin condom-so I can keep my pride-no going into the throat-and get it over fast like in 5 minutes or less? And no more than once a week on that position? I haven’t decided yet-I’m just wondering what men who have to have that position would think.

        Thanks for the suggestion, but I’m through with internet dating. I tried it before and got nowhere. I did meet a wonderful man who was so like me he finished my sentences once, but he died before we could be together. I still have hope I can meet the right man.

        • Boris

          I don’t think you really have any qualified sources on the whole oral sex issue and “mainstream” is an awfully vague term. Feel free to prove me wrong though.

          I’m sorry to hear about your troubled past. I don’t think anybody here is advocating that you should do anything you don’t want to do. I just disagree with some of your premises is all.

          I cannot comment on what other men would or wouldn’t do. I am sure many in the religious community would probably have no problems with your position on anything, in fact they’d probably love your positions. I’m just not a member of that community and neither is Charlie or Raul. Our opinions and advice may not be relevant for you.

          I still think you should try eHarmoney if you didn’t try that one – there are a lot of Christians on there.

  • Danielle M.

    I do not know why one of you mentioned “Bible-thumping” I haven’t said anything about my faith except in which to clarify my position. But I will not sleep with anyone before marriage (got my knowledge through reading) because #1 it is morally wrong for me and believe I would have to answer to God for it when I die (possibly missing Heaven) #2 until about three decades ago most men didn’t expect nice women to have sex outside of marriage-and today men will expect you not only to have sex, but to give up your independence and “shack up” with them-even to have illegitimate kids with them-and I would have to wait until the boyfriend’s timing to get married-which may be never…why “play house” and act like a wife if I am not? I don’t see that as fair at all. To me it’s not about what goods I might accumulate if I got divorced it’s about whether a man loves me enough to want only me for the rest of his life and commit to me and make us a family-and I don’t believe that shacking up makes you a family, not matter what modern society says. I will only date my own faith (born again Christian) and strongly prefer my own nation also. As far as being a stay-at home wife that would only be until any kids present are grown, and I could take a part-time job while they are in school growing up. The reason is I do not want my kids put into an “institution” (ie daycare), why have kids if someone else gets to raise them and I miss most of the “good stuff” because I’m at work when the kids hit a certain stage of development? I do not want just twenty minutes in the evening with them after their homework is done dinner is eaten and it’s time for them to go to bed-and the modern-day family where everybody vegges out in front of the tube or is off each person doing their own thing and playing with their own electronic device all the time doesn’t appeal to me either.

    I forgot to mention I won’t have sex with anyone but my husband (no swingers) when I said the sky is the limit. If the expression “_ sucks” doesn’t mean oral sex, then why in elementary school was the phrase treated like a bad word if any of the kids said it… surely sucking something in and of itself isn’t dirty (sucking a straw, sucking a Pixie-Stix, etc.)? And recently I worked with a guy in his twenties who, when angry at someone actually said “eat me” about them behind their back… and he’s not the only one I’ve heard use references to oral sex in this manner… to me it’s an issue of power and control for the man… ESPECIALLY when they expect you to swallow their semen-he’s already had his orgasm, so swallowing it is just a means of something mental…. When I was little I used to masturbate and I read that some women like oral sex because they can’t come to an orgasm with regular penetration – I definitely know I won’t need this done to me, and it’s a turn-off to me. Until after the 80’s oral wasn’t even mainstream in the U.S. – for hundreds and thousands of years men were satisfied with just vaginal sex… then they

    • Boris

      I brought it up simply in answering your question. I would never date anyone that’s devoutly religious unless they were a Pastafarian like me. I also wouldn’t seriously date anyone let alone marry them without a “test drive,” so to speak. As I said to each his own but it sounds like you’re pretty hard core religious. I don’t know where you get the crazy ideas about oral sex and what was and wasn’t normal three decades ago, etc. Ever heard of the 60’s? Ever read the Kama Sutra? Anyway to each his own but I find all this stuff a huge turnoff.

  • Cudaguy

    The, “choose between mouth or vagina” line is humorous.

    As a guy I’m thinking, why can’t I have both?

    Like vaginas, all women have mouths too. It depends on the woman as to how they use them.

    As for oral…the once a year birthday present doesn’t cut it.

    My 2c

  • Charlie

    Really, Danielle, you might enjoy oral sex. I’m just saying, it’s pretty good.

  • Danielle M.


    Yes, I would keep my own weight down. Anal sex hurts. The reason I would refuse oral sex is because the term “_ (fill in the blank) sucks” is referring to oral sex-it is an insult to me – plus if God made the mouth the secondary vagina why have I read that a woman’s jaw gets sore and she gags? Unnatural. I would not want to receive it either. But other than these two and S & M sex the sky would be the limit. I’ve read in two different surveys that if a guy had to choose either regular intercourse or oral for the rest of his life they would choose intercourse – also one article stated that guys blindfolded a woman masturbating them was as good to them as oral – I have no problem with the alternative. Well at least you’re fair on the other points – this has given me hope that I find a good American white man in the U.S.

    • Boris

      I disagree that “fill in the blank” sucks has anything to do with oral sex. “Fill in the blank” sucks typically just means something that is bad. That’s all. I don’t know of any girls that gag or get a sore jaw from oral sex (they must be either a porn star or doing it wrong). Also I don’t know any girls that don’t love receiving oral sex (you’re missing out), I enjoy giving it too. I am not sure what “sky” is left after you eliminate all those things. I’m sure there’s a few things I’m not thinking of (hot policewoman uniform, anyone?) but it sounds like life would be pretty routine with all those limitations. I don’t know about this blindfold handjob thing (I think masturbation by definition is something you do to yourself) but I’m sure it’s not as good as a blow job, trust me on this. You sound like a really nice girl but like your bible thumping is limiting your horizons a bit it sounds like. I can’t speak for Charlie but I wouldn’t want a serious relationship with somebody that’s devoutly religious. I’m also not too tied up about having a stay at home wife, I just want her to be feminine and not feminist. Most of my girlfriends have been professional women. To each his own though. I’m sure you can find yourself a nice husband. If not you can travel too. There’s nothing wrong with guys from some other countries.

  • Danielle M.

    I am a woman surfing the ‘net who happened to happen on this website. Out of curiousity…(this is addressed to white American males) would you marry an American white woman who would be willing to stay at home to raise the kids until they were 18, be supportive of her husband, have sex very often and only refuse when truly ill or in the period, doesn’t believe in abortion, a good cook and cleans her own home, has old-fashioned Christian family values and values family dinners together every night on average, isn’t conceited, doesn’t believe women are superior to men, is a virgin for religious reasons, isn’t bossy, and doesn’t fit the 10 things named above… this same woman would expect a spouse to be emotionally supportive like a best friend (I’m not saying be feminine like a girlfriend, I’m just saying hold her and kiss when she cries because something horrible just happened to her, for example) – that kind of support and expect him to never talk down to her or treat her as a less than equal and never force her to do oral, anal or S & M sex (but she’s willing to try everything else), never hit her, and admit it when they are wrong (she’s not the type to pick fights by the way), not look at porn, and keep his weight down and his hair colored as he gets older just the same as he would expect her to keep her weight down and hair colored for him? Just curious to see how if most American men are willing to compromise or do they really have an “it has to be everything my way” attitude towards a woman like that.

    • Charlie

      I think most of that is totally reasonable, except for the no oral or anal sex. What’s so bad about giving a blowjob? Lots of women enjoy it even. Also, will you promise to keep your weight down also? Even after having kids?

    • CJ

      How old are you, Danielle? And are you single? You can drop me a line!

  • Lee

    Hey Boris,
    This is Lee again. People keep talking about American men leaving the U.S. What would you give as a rough figure of the numbers of men leaving for other countries? Safado mentioned that it would send a strong message. Lee

    • Boris

      I honestly have no idea. I’m not sure if anyone keeps statistics on this or not (must be somebody somewhere but I don’t know them). All I can say is that it must be growing. Between the worsening tax and political situation in the US plus the draw of exotic foreign women I think this is going to be a hot trend for the future. After all not only are some of these countries cheap and packed with hot women, they have low taxes to boot!

      • Andy

        I’ve actually been thinking about this too. I’ve been pondering leaving the US for Eastern Europe in the not so distant future. I won’t rule it out. After all, a single guy has to weigh all his options. Only time will tell.

      • Jonathan

        I’m going to China to take advantage of the boom in a few months, and I know plenty of expats in other places. However, the majority of Americans will not go out. Think that only 30% of Americans has passports. If this information became more mainstream, there would be huge feminist backlash.

  • Mathilde

    I truly appreciate you telling it how it is, Charlie. I like to think of myself as the exception to the American girl “rule”. Having said that…I concur with your opinion of most American women. I have a mere handful of female friends for the very same reasons you mentioned in this post. Why would I want to hang out with dumb bitches who spend half their lives texting and the other half looking at their fat asses in the mirror (wondering if the word “Juicy” written in bold print makes them look skinner)? LMAO!!! Shut the fucking cell phone off, enjoy life, read a book to educate yourself and go to the fucking gym!!! It embarrasses me to see women behave so rude, stupid and self-deprecatingly. It certainly gives us few “good eggs” a bad rap. I don’t blame you for looking elsewhere!

    The worst part (for me) is that these women have totally destroyed a large pool of single American men! My last two long-term relationships were with men who constantly wanted me to tell them what to do. They also followed me around like puppy dogs. Grow some balls!!! If I wanted a lap dog I would just buy one!!!

    Thanks again for your honesty (and your disclaimer that not ALL American women fit the profile)!

    • Charlie

      This is our kind of girl.

    • Kiki

      I completely agree with you, sister! hehehe I don’t live in the US anymore, but when I did either the guys I dated were too abused themselves, much like myself, or were the male version of this article!! There is a hard find medium but as I said – hard to find! Good luck, hun!! You’ll need it with the way the typical American woman is declining drastically.

    • CJ

      That’s the attitude a smart girl have. I wish I could meet girls like you!

  • Logan

    Just here to illustrate that the median weight (half the population above, half below) for a 30 year old white American woman is about 142 lbs, median height is 5’3. Less than 25% weigh less than 125 lbs, which even at 5’3 is pushing right up against thick.

    I’m literally counting the minutes until my next trip to Central America, or as it should be called ‘That magic place where 70% of 18-32 year old women look like Shakira’.

  • Dr Rahul G.

    Excellent article and videos. I feel that all “western women” suck. Women here in the US – irrespective or race/religion – are so cheap, superficial, and fake – it is unbelievable! Women here are lack self-respect and intelligence, and are be willing to date AND sleep with some loser (aka “bad boy”) off the street just to appease him. Furthermore, they’re so loud-mouthed and opinionated – it makes me want to [….]. The divorce rate here is ~60%. Just walk into any bar, and you’ll find sweaty, half-naked, drunk, w****s dancing away into the night to senseless music. Will these women make good wives? I think most single intelligent guys like me are better off staying single or getting foreign wives.

    • Andy

      Not only are they loud-mouthed but foul-mouthed as well. Countless times I’ve happened to be walking by women cursing over the phone and running their potty mouths with their potty mouthed girlfriends whether it be at the park, the store, the gym, etc. When they’re not doing that they’re cursing out their boyfriends/husbands and even their children!

  • Safado

    Excellent presentation. I am fortunate to be a 36 year old male living in a western society (Canada) that has never married. Why? I suppose a little bit of luck has to do with it. After reading these interesting comments, I write this for the young guys out there that are under tremendous pressure to marry, and to have a “normal life”. My advice is to explore the world, so you have something to compare to when you return home. Before I get attacked by the feminists. My former girlfriends would comment that I am a handsome man, well educated and financially stable. I have personally traveled a large portion of the world with 3 objectives in mind. I refuse to leave a country until I satisfy those objectives. 1. To experience the culture 2. To taste the unique foods offered. 3. To have sex with a local girl
    When I first began this journey, I did not take into account how much it would change me fundamentally on my beliefs and philosophy on western culture. I made the tremendous realization that I did not have to put up with the women in Canada, just so I can get a sniff of pussy. With this came liberation. At the end of the day, pussy was the same all over the world. If I wanted a relationship it would be on my terms, not theirs.
    I would stay in these countries for an average of 8 weeks at a time. With each return trip back to Canada, it became increasingly difficult to return to my own reality. How could I ever date, never mind marry a woman from this country, when the quality was so much better in these foreign countries? To voice these opinions openly is to risk ridicule, not only from the women in our society, but from the castrated males also. I do not have one friend that I can say is happily married. All of them say they are, but actions betray their words. It is lonely path, but the reward at the end is the ability to look in the mirror and know that you have chosen the life you wanted to lead. Not how society thinks you should live it. I can understand a lot of these different men having anger towards the way our society treats us. Don’t be. For whatever age you have came to this realization, you had the courage to go against the grain and now you are going towards a brighter future. It is better late than never. Look around at your friends and family, would you exchange your lifestyle for theirs? As for me, I am in the process of leaving N. America, to start the second half of my life in Brazil. We can not change the opinions of the majority of these women here, but if enough of us leave…. it sure would send a strong message.
    Thank you for whoever is hosting sites like this, and for the people that contribute. It lets people like me know that I have made the right decision.

    • Charlie

      Great and thoughtful post. Thank you Safado.

    • Boris

      Excellent post. Thank you for your contribution.

    • ¡Raul!


    • Rod

      Funny you should say that! I am Canadian and have lived in Brazil for the last 20 years, Mainly due to the Woman and life style, I have just done the opposite of what you guys are talking about!
      If you Marry a Brazilian girl she will be all you have mentioned but beware you will have to support her family too which includes Uncles, Aunts and cousins. As far as cheap………..don’t believe that shit!!! Brasil has turned into one of the most expensive places to live in the World……See a few examples of way I am leaving:

      Gasoline is at over 7 USD a gallon
      A Cherokee will cost you 100k USD
      Income tax is around 50%
      There are 147 assassinations per day in Brazil
      The cost of living is +- 200% more than North America ( Unless you want to live in a Mud hut )
      The Police will rob you just as quick as the robbers
      Highest interest rate in the world ( Credit cards at 350% )

      Just a few of the things………But you can’t beat the hard bodies for sure…….And I agree i would never marry a North American woman.


      • Boris

        Brazil was not one of our specific recommendations. I’m surprised to hear it’s so expensive.

  • Elmatador

    Oh, and BC is full of great Far-East Asians who can ski and Toronto is a hothouse of Indians with liberal sensibilities which you won’t find in India.

    • Charlie

      Nice nugget of wisdom there from Elmatador.

  • Elmatador

    Sorry, not entirely true regarding Canadian women.
    The only ones that are a drag are the virtual carbon copies of American women.
    That is, some parts of Canada are just an extension of our entirely messed up
    consumer culture. Newfoundland, Quebec, BC, and lots of other regions are
    full of sweet, sophisticated and reasonable women who take damn good care of themselves.
    Guys from one of my posse’s go up to Montreal for Formula One week every year and
    they are in shock from the stunning talent there which they describe as a European fashion show.
    And let’s not be too hard on women in general. We love them or else we wouldn’t get so worked
    up when they are so disappointing.

    • Kiki

      Toronto has many Serbian girls – supposedly some of the most beautifully natural girls in the world! Hehehe

    • Mike

      Yeah, I would say that instead of 1 out of 100 American women being great, Canada’s ratio is quite a bit higher, but still not exceptional. The attitudes of materialism, feminism, and “never satisfied” expectations is prevalent in Canada too. Some of my single female friends literally have “lists” of characteristics that their man “must have” to be deemed “worthy” – they are looking for a man who (quite literally) “checks all the boxes”. It’s ridiculous. TV and other media like Cosmo are the primary culprits. Also, the idea that women must match men in terms of career success instead of staying at home has brought about the entitlement attitude. Unfortunately, financially in Canada or the US it is extremely difficult to raise kids and own a home on one income so the woman has to work for a family to get by which is not the case in many other countries. She would also be chastised by her friends and peers if she doesn’t have a “successful career”. Although I am in favor of women being able to work or achieve whatever they want, I think American women’s attitudes, and by extension North American society as a whole, started going down the drain when women entered the work force in a big way starting in the 40s and then big time since the 70s. My mom was a stay at home mom and she is a great lady who always cooked, cleaned and was proud of it. But I look around at the gals my age and it’s a different story – always telling their guy what he can and cannot do, rarely allowing him to go out with his buddies, making him do all the chores around the house, and yeah, she’s fat and doesn’t care now that she’s married. 50% divorce rate in the US tells a big story, not sure what the rate is in Canada. The only difficulty with finding a woman overseas (and I know this from experience, both personal and through friends I know) is that you have to live in her country or bring her home to yours, and that is not as easy as it sounds. American men might be brainwashed into believing that every foreign woman dreams of living in America and that she will be instantly happy once she arrives in our suburban sprawl fast food strip mall materialistic society where she doesn’t know anyone and is miles away from her friends and family. And if you think living in her country will be easy, try it, I did, and it aint.

      • Manuel Pfister

        I love living in other countries but I suppose it’s not for everyone. However, nowadays there is more reason than ever to make it work somewhere else. Bringing your foreign beauty home is a big no no the biggest reason of which you forgot to mention: because the western bitches she will inevitably make friends with will corrupt her!

  • scatmaster

    Canadian bitches ain’t much better as a matter of fact they are much worse.

    • Boris

      Please tell us more. I’m not familiar with Canadian women.

  • Lee

    I want to pass along a thought about the aforegoing blog. I am a professional consultant who has worked with literally thousands of women. What I have observed is scary stuff. American women fall very short in many ways. The list is manifold. They are very demanding about a man’s level of education but most of all his bankroll. The most important critarion to most of them is money; the demand which transcends all others. Most women who are physically attractive have an arrogant attitude, because the vast majority of American women are rather ugly, or overweight. Therefore, they believe they have a lot of leverage. Most women are insipid in their emotions and behavior. They always hold back in their feelings. The men then feel very lonely and rejected. While the women out there may complain about fat and uncaring men, they should know that a lot of this reaction on mens’ part is due to the shallowness of their female counterparts. Why should a man want to take care of himself when there is noboby to care for? I also know of a number of handsome, 6’2″ tall, educated, and financially secure men who are having a hard time finding a good woman. I must say one thing in the defense of the women out there: They are victims of the media and the campaigns out there to destroy our nation and its good moral practices. I refer to them as the TV mentality. This is one reason why I don’t listen to the radio or TV. I don’t read the papers. I practice great care in the magazines I read. When you watch a Hollywood movie, carefully observe how the men are treated. They are portrayed as whimps and losers who require that the women take control. Women just pick up on this brainwashing automatically. The best policy is to have compassion and understanding for these women. But the fact remains that we men are forced to look elsewhere for meaningful relationships; other countries. I for one am leaving for South America as soon as possible. The U.S. is too expensive and riddles with the infection of feminism and materialism. I care for and wish well to both men and women on this blog and in the U.S. We must cultivate an attitude of compassion and understanding towards all here. Lee

    • Boris

      Thank you for you feedback Lee. I can’t speak for Raul and Charlie but I agree with you 110%. If you would ever like to write a guest post drop me a line at

  • Cudaguy

    I guess I’m “old fashioned”, but if a female has more tats (tramp stamps) than a WW2 sailor and a couple pounds of metal in her head and belly button and has been in multiple fistfights a red flag goes up immediately.

    It’s too bad a large majority of WW females have become “men”. Only a gay guy wants to date another “man”.

    just my 2c.

    • Kiki

      I have a couple tattoos – no tramp stamp though – and my ears and belly button pierced. I’ve had a lot of piercings but they easily come out and close up. But I do agree with you. I don’t mind a couple tattoos or piercings but there is no need to be covered – men or women. It’s like the person is trying to cover up something else. I know a few exceptions to that thought, but there are exceptions to all thoughts.

      But I totally agree – many women have become men and it’s scary!

      • Wolfie65

        I’m always a little surprised when I come across an [i]attractive[/i] AW under the age of 50 who [i]doesn’t[/i] have at least one tat.
        It’s like they pull ’em out of the womb, nurse goes: “Yup, it’s a girl – off to the ink shop, she needs a butterfly on her ass.”

  • Ron

    Don’t think you have a monopoly on AW attitudes. The black community suffers from this too. I just came back from Ghana and saving up for another go. Yes, they want me for the things I can provide, but you know EXACTLY what your’re getting and most importantly they are comforatable in their femenity. In the western world, we are now all men.

    The laws and attitude have made AW a much too expensive proposition.

  • Sara

    Well… I don’t entirely disagree with Charlie’s viewpoint. I have many friends who are very shallow about dating men, and who are content as long as he does not argue about anything ever, and does not talk to other women. It’s kind of sad really, the multitude of men they date and then break it off with – and they’re all so full of themselves. But that’s besides the point; I just wanted to say that there are American women out there who aren’t all for financial gain and who don’t think every man wants to get in their pants. I’m not 200 pounds nor am I 90, and I haven’t dated that many people because I keep to my standards of a secure, intelligent man (it’s really all I ask for – we can talk about complicated subjects, and he won’t follow me around like a puppy). I’m only a high school junior though, so that probably explains my lack of experience.

    But.. as I read the article, as I laughed at the stupidity of the women in the examples, I couldn’t help feeling kind of horrible every time he wrote that the only place to find a quality woman was another country. I feel like I can’t compare to a woman in Brazil or Italy, and that if a man dates me he’s wasting his time. Also, I really want to travel when I’m older, and from what I’ve read, when somebody asks where I’m from, the proper answer is, “Oh, I’m from the english-speaking part of Canada..” I feel like I am the victim of a harsh stereotype that’s going to follow me around wherever I go, and even though I know that you’re referring to only a portion of all American women, it still kind of hurts to read your article.

    • Boris

      Thanks for your feedback Sara. As we do recognize there are some quality American girls out there somewhere we are going to introduce a female guest writer in the near future that will provide advice for women. Girls can travel to meet the man of their dreams too. We freely admit that not all American men are rainbows and sunshine either.

    • Luca

      Women in Italy are bitchier and uglyer than americans.

  • justin

    Hi everybody! I’m a 18 year old high school senior and had some questions. I’m graduating in the spring and my parents have offered to pay for a trip for me and a buddy for two weeks to europe. Where should we go? I really want to get laid, my girlfriend says she want to wait until she graduates high school.

  • ashley

    i’m mello and thanks charlie, but i still don’t like you. jonathan rox, boring story zzzz
    the rest of you guys are starting to creep me out. why do you gotta be haters??

  • Cudaguy

    Great blog! It’s got a shortcut on my desktop!

    Ashley…mello out girl. 😉

  • Charlie

    Hi everyone, thanks so much for your input on this subject. I’m glad it seems to have struck a chord with so many people so quickly.

    I’d like to take a moment to actually stick up for Ashley on one point: I talk to my American girlfriends frequently and it’s true: a good man is hard to find. The twin American epidemics of obesity and entitlement have affected men and women in America both. The stories they tell me about guys they go out with are pretty bad. So I can understand her frustration with American guys.

    (As I write this I’m sitting at a coffeeshop and there is a guy sitting in front of me who must weigh a minimum of 400 pounds. His ass is just hanging out of his seat on both sides. And he’s feasting his ass off, of course)

    So guys, lets go easy on Ashley. Remember, we love women!

  • Gretz

    Don’t get married to American Women. Enough of them are narcissistic and psychotic, and the family court is blatantly biased against you.

    Oh, BTW Ashley, I’m a network engineer, an ex-GI, I own my own home, and I make 100k, so, I’m not some fat loser living in my parents’ basement. My ex owes me child support (and can’t pay it without screwing someone for it).

    I’ll say this for the alleged fat losers living in their parents’ basement playing WoW all night long – you’re just mad that they’re fat and happy and not wasting their time and money trying to get your attention. Personally, I’d have to say that pizza’s and a WoW account are probably a better investment of their time and money than getting stuck paying alimony and child support to someone who’s NEVER going to be satisfied, and is only going to go out of their way to make them miserable.

  • Alucard

    Unfortunately, this plague of FemiNazism is spreading throughout the world. Have any of you seen the disaster of the Indian Penal code system that is allowing women over there to completely subvert the democractic process and imprison innocent men so that they can claim his assets and continue onwards to the “next man”? It won’t be long now when men will have to face a decision: whether to [edited – believes in free speech but not violence] or we will have to seek out the remainder of our existence in solitude…for a great sum of strength can be mastered in solitude. We are reaching a critical destabilization point in Western civilization and it won’t be long until everything collapses and these so-called American bitches learn the true cost of their behavior and entitlement thinking. As for traveling the world…there are hidden dangers out there that have not yet been fully surfaced and until such dangers are exposed, the risks are too high to allow something as sensitive as an intimate relationship to come to fruition until the cost as been counted.

    • Boris

      Alucard, we hear what you’re saying but do not share your grim world view. We also do not advocate true hatred or violence in any fashion. We do believe most American girls make bad girlfriends but we seek to be entertainers and advisors to single men – certainly not inciters of hatred and definitely under no circumstances violence. When we say we “hate” it’s tongue in cheek.

  • G Money

    Sounds like you fools got this shit all figured out.

  • ashley

    well i’m just saying that you american guys are no catch either. YOUre fat, YOUre stupid, YOUre shitty in bed too!

    • Boris

      Ashely, I’m still waiting for that picture… it’s called put up or shut. Seriously though, keep going, we don’t care. You’re good entertainment. Bring some fat friends next time. We can hook up all your DUFFs (Designated Ugly Fat Friends) with some Stag Party DAFFs (Drunken Asshole Football Fans).

    • Andy

      That’s ironic. I was thinking the same thing about American women!

    • Jonathan

      Ashley, you should live in a machismo country like Russia or Colombia where men routinely beat their wives, cheat on their wives, and mistreat their wives.

      Then you’ll realize how “shitty” American really are. After all, if we’re so “shitty”, why are there THOUSANDS of international dating and marriage sites/agencies to match AMERICAN men and FOREIGN women? The fact is that the cultural, social and political environment in the US has been utterly feminized which has given women way too much power over men. It’s unfair and quite frankly will eventually spell the end of Western Civilization. I just hope that our brand of feminism doesn’t spread asunder! However, I think it won’t. The US is losing its high ground every day.

      • Kiki

        I’m not sure about Colombian men.. but the Russian man stereotype is a bit of a stereotype. I know many Russians – male and female – and they are far from this mentality of beating their wives and such that is depicted in US movies and such. True, there are some that are beaters, but they are in all countries…

        As for the matching American men with foreign women sites – that’s for multiple reasons. American men want something different, and many foreign women think that if they find an American man to marry them that life will be the American dream they watch in movies and shows in their native country which is still pretty far from the truth of how it is in the US.

        But I do agree with the article… American women in general are ridiculous anymore. Generations ago they were sane… nowadays, I’m glad I’m not 100% American and don’t live in the US anymore, either. I’ve had just as many shitty relationships with American men as many American men have with American women… so it can go both ways. There are good and bad in both genders.

        • Zeljko The Impaler

          TAKO JE SESTRO!!! Well i recommend a book called “In 50 years we will all be chicks” to fans of this site. Shows the downfall of the American male.

          • Kiki

            Хвала пуно, душо! Ја не знам много српски, али ја учим. Живим у Србији… so I have lots of time to learn. LOL My Serbian stopped there – I’ve also been grading student exams all night, too. LOL I’ll look into your book, too!!

  • Bill

    I love this blog! This is right on the money. And from now on when I have those lonely nights and I think about my peers who are in marriages or have girlfriends and get a little down I am gonna come to this blog and remember just what two timing sleezy cess pools american girls are.

    I am over it. I would RATHER jack off then to waste my life and money on a girl who is usually a.fat b.thinks she is entitled to the best man possible only in a relationship for material reasons.

    I don’t know what it is honestly. I don’t think they raise these girls right anymore. They have forgotten what it means to be a woman. They teach these girls from birth to use their beauty/sex to get what they want from men and work they way through life. All the housekeeping skills like cooking,cleaning,etc are NOT taught to the american girls. Skills any woman should possess honestly.From the time I was a young boy I was taught how to mow the yard or take out the trash or etc. But these girls dont know nothing. A lot of my guy friends will also confirm this and tell me how girls they date dont know nothing. They walk around in jogging pants and flip flops and just like it says above they tell you “I dont care what I look like”. Its bad enough women divert to that shit after you get married, they let themselves go, but when they just do it everyday you know you have a real problem. These girls are gonna have to lower their damn standards the way us american men do and be REALISTIC. IF your fat? You need a fat man. If your skinny? You need a skinny man. Smart/Smart Ugly/Ugly. ANY American it the most smart,skinny,rich,sexy. Doesnt matter. Will date ANY of these women. YET the situation doesnt happen in reverse. For some of us this travel shit is out the question even if promising. So these american girls need to shape up!

    • Boris

      We’re glad to connect with other men who know what’s up. Travel may not be as far out of reach as you think – stay tuned well teach you all the tricks. I actually save money when I travel over sitting at home doing nothing. If it’s not a money thing don’t worry, well also touch on a few topics that will help you find that 1 in 100 “exception to the rule” American girl.

  • Johnathon Rocks

    LOL… spot on! As for the show “Moment of Truth”, that looks like a seriously horrible show.. That is the kind of show that reminds me why I don’t watch TV… it is full of hostilities and attempts at ripping people’s hearts out :(

    Some of your female respondents seem upset that men are finally pointing out the faults with women, specifically American Women (Note the same initials are used for Attention Whore)… Unfortunately, this is what happens when you (AW’s) spend several decades bashing and hating on men. We’ve had enough of feminist hate campaigns against men, labelling us all as brutish thugs who are too stupid to look after ourselves, now you can share in the pains of being painted with the same brush. We men have to contend with this daily – and you’re all equal, so you can share our pains.

  • Todd

    I find it hilarious how riled up Ashley and Jessica are getting. Only the truth elicits such a response. Right on travel dudes!

  • Jessica

    You evil fucking bastards are going to give some poor girl an eating disorder. American girls aren’t fat, we’re beautiful, gorgeous and sexy. You just wish you could get a piece of us.

    • Boris

      Jessica, I’ll make you the same offer I made Ashley. In fact if you can prove you’re as hot as you say you are I’ll make a YouTube of myself eating one of my shoes!

      • Andy

        Don’t flatter yourself, Jessica. I USED to wish I could get a piece of you American females. But that was years ago. Then I traveled abroad and that altered my perception. Better to have seen the light than not see it at all.

    • Johnathon Rocks

      You know what, Jessica?

      I’m in England… and I married an AW (no, not an attention whore – I mean an American Woman). Turns out, she was an attention whore though, I just hadn’t realised prior to marriage. Sure, she wasn’t fat or ugly – on the outside, in fact she was quite beautiful and certainly the best sex I’d had.

      But you know, inside… she was one of the most ugly people I’ve ever had the displeasure to engage with. All she did was complain, she was bossy, naggy, whiney, bitchy and so on. Due to immigration costs, we had to shack up with her Mother & Father a while until we could get on our feet. She would smack the grand children around, drag them about in a headlock, kick them, throw tins at them, yell & bawl at them. When I spoke up against the child abuse I was witnessing, I was threatened with violence and removal of support for my immigration.

      Meanwhile, my stepson’s therapist came around and the grandmother would blame her husband for any and all abuses. He was out most of the day – working hard so the rest of the family could have food on the table and a roof over their head, while she worked part time and spent ALL of her money, most of his money and even then scrounged off the state by faking her income to get support.

      Sure, this is only two AW’s I’m talking about… but by God, they were sick individuals.

      I’ll tell you this, Jessica. If you think a man is an ‘evil fucking bastard’ because he posts a blog entry on the failings of AW’s – just think how ‘fucking evil’ the AW’s look when they’re battering and assaulting children, blaming it on innocent people, threatening others who try to do the right thing, resorting to violence to ensure they get their way, interfering with a father/child relationship, making false allegations of rape/abuse, stealing children and using them as pawns in divorce cases, demanding help for women only and going out of their way to minimize any help for men, putting themselves above men AND children, and so on and so on and so on.

      YOU AW’s have reaped what you sowed. Well done for making men realise what scum you really are.

    • Jonathan

      Jessica, the majority of Americans are overweight or obese. The statistics exist. Here, I’ll help you.

      If you want to make an argument, you should use evidence and logic to support it. Attacking someone is called ad hominy. It’s a logical fallacy.

      Maybe you and more wives should learn how to cook! We can start seeing fewer fat Americans!

  • Jim Wilson

    We have the same problem over this side of the pond in bloody old England! I’m overdue for a spot of fun in the East.

  • Jaegerbombs!

    HAHAHAHA you got that right! At least American girls are sluts! Just get a bunch of Jaegerbombs in them and they’re ready to go! JAEGERBOMBS!

    • Boris

      Ladies and gentlemen, we have our first douchebag reader.

  • ashley

    i think that making these generalizations isnt nice or fair, i’m not pushy and am totally refined! and a lot of my girlfriends are. we have the same problems with you fat, smelly, unromantic american douchebags!

    • Boris

      Care to post a pic Ashley? You can even blur our your face but you have to prove it’s you by holding up a sign that says “fuck you Charlie!”

    • Jonathan

      Ashley, life isn’t about what’s fair or nice. It’s about what you can get. Of course, with your feminist ideology, you believe everything should be fair and nice TO YOU when it SUITS YOU. Well dear, it’s called REALITY. ACCEPT IT.

      Btw, American men are often romantic earlier in our lives, but as we get rejected, manipulated, mistreated, unappreciated, and discarded easily in our twenties to early thirties we tend to lose our romantic feelings and just decide to fuck American women instead of marrying them. Oh yeah, you can say how American men are fat, smelly and unromantic but if you go to any supermarket in your neighborhood and just observe the women, you will notice a large number of overweight or obese, middle-aged women that dress terribly/unfeminine and have short hair. It’s far more common to find fat women than fat men in America. Maybe if women here would value cooking more, the country wouldn’t be so fucking fat.

      That’s what the majority of men who get married can expect to live, sleep and “have sex” with. Scary stuff.

      I’m going to Asia in a few months! Hello, beautiful, feminine, sweet, thin Taiwanese women!

      • Boris

        Hey Jonathan,

        I think you’re going to have a great time there. Check back soon, we’ve got some upcoming articles on China and Asia that we’re putting the finishing touches on.

        • Jonathan

          Yes, I agree. Your website resonates with my experiences in the US so well. I studied abroad during college and realized virtually all of these articles ring true. Most American women are terrible and brainwashed with this feminism bullshit.

          • Boris

            Right on!

        • CJ

          WOW! I love this web site! Not only all these generalizations are funny, but also true. I have been to Russia, Ukraine( Best so far), France, UK(never go back), Turkey(yummy),Uzbekistan(intelligent girls with dignity),and Germany. Also been to many airports all over the world.

          You can guess right away( assuming that you were not told which airport you were arriving) that you are in America as soon as you step in JFK or any other airports.

          I also dated American white girls, never will. I have a weakness, I need to get laid often…Even if it is so hard for me, I try to avoid stupid cunts. What’s worse is that I don’t even date any chicks under 25, because they are extremely retarded. Even if the girls over 30 act like a fucking high school girls. Most of them have a kid or two with no father…usually the girl’s parents carry the burden, and the bitch hangs out at the clubs. Pathetic. I’m not generalizing,and I know there are a few good women in America. Actually this reminds me of Ali G movie:) He says ” In order to improve quality of our women, we should only allow fit women to enter our country” it was funny, but he nailed it!

      • Kevin

        Taiwan is actually pretty nice, but their women are very sexually reserved in comparison to the eastern European and even to the American girls. In Taiwan, the women will not be shy to come up to you.

  • Elmatador


    Do you realize that women all over the world agree with the view that
    American women are narcissistic, pushy, spoiled and unrefined?

    I hear this from Korean, Italian, Russian and Brazilian women all the time. American mens biggest problem is that they don’t realize there are so many wonderfully loving options in the world waiting to simply meet educated men with ambition and prospects. The American men who lack these basic traits are indeed up shit creek and best stay in the comfort of their parents basement because even poor Romanian farm girls won’t put up with these pussies. The American divorce rate is through the roof because of the women’s insane expectations here. Ask any marriage counselor.

  • ashley

    bob, you’re probably some fat guy who lives with his parents and jacks off the time, thats why you hate american girls, cause we don’t like u.

    • Boris

      Now now Ashley, I’m going to have to insist that you put up or shut up before you start attacking our readers.

    • Andy

      “Jacks off the time”? “cause we don’t like u”?

      Wow, Ashley. What’s your level of education?

  • Elmatador

    Hello everyone,

    As someone who has hit the global buffet HARD, I can attest to the veracity of the
    objective statement that from a man’s perspective….

    American women are the absolute worst deal available on the planet.

    They embody maximum entitlement and minimum output of the positive traits that a man could want.

    This generalization has held true for me to a degree that has shocked me. Many men in USA believe they aren’t good with women but the fact is that they are trying to succeed in an arena where there is no success. I’m not saying they are bad people. I have many desirable fun american women friends whom I like but as girlfriends, they are so lame.

    Ashley’s response is wonderfully indicative.

    • Chad

      Right on man. I have been spending my summers in central and south America for years. I only come home to earn money.

    • tom jones

      I couldn’t agree with El Matador more. Unless you have traveled you don’t know whats out there. You see trends in how people act and treat one another. This is culture. America has no place for men. Women have created a materialistic culture catered to them. They use the excuse of feminism to make slutty behavior appropriate and acceptable. Just look at media with songs like Rhianas boy can you get it up take it take it love me love me. And Beyonce put a ring on it. Women in other countries find American men more subdued. They say they are so easy to please and make good companions. I found foreign women to be incredibly more mature and respectful. The difference in quality is astonishing.

    • Kevin

      As someone with experience in China, I would argue that upper middle class women in China are actually much worse now. Oh, how times have changed.

  • ashley

    youre as asshole charlie. im an american girl and maybe the reason you have problems with us is because we make you work for it too much. i guess youd rather have some 3rd world sluts that just want your money. do america a favor and just move somewhere else.

    • Bob

      Ashley don’t beat up on these guys just because they’re telling it like it is. Be honest, how much do you weigh? 150? 200? More? Go hit the treadmill and loose the attitude. Us guys are on to you American chicks. If you don’t shape up you better learn how to munch carpet or you’re going to be mighty lonely!

    • Andy

      I just may move somewhere else, Ashley. Just as much as I wouldn’t be missed I won’t miss women like you. Thanks for the inspiration!

    • Pwned

      Bahahaha. Ashley you just proved our point, despite that you think you are something WORTH working for. You, as well as the rest of your kind, should do America a favor and move to the ocean. Don’t take a boat either; just walk right in and keep going.

    • Anonymously Annoyed

      Oh Ashley…”maybe the reason you have problems with us is because we make you work for it too much.” The problem is right there…YOU make US work for it when it should be YOU who works for it.

    • Panic


      That’s all I am hearing out of you right now.

  • The lone traveler

    I couldn’t agree with your assessment more. As soon as I started traveling all my woman troubles went away.

    • http://msn kyzer

      could’nt agree more.. I adore SNOKEN HOT LATINA”S not cute or almost hot… Smoken HOT, No exceptions.. (old broads need not apply!) Why drink spring water from a bottle when you can go too the source!… but you gota have a lot of hunt in the dog…Lazy dudes, back on the couch wit the remote, fellas…

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